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Top Actress, Lilian Ogechi Esoro has now offered an insight into what really happened with her marriage to Ubi Franklin.<\/p>\n
During a recent chat with Toke Makinwa, an on-air personality, Lilian Esoro said, \u201cHere\u2019s what people don\u2019t know, my marriage had been shaky from engagement. Some people always say, \u2018you shouldn\u2019t have gone ahead with the marriage at all\u2019. But, when I think about it, I made the right decision.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cNow, my son is very important to me. With everything that happened, when I want to feel sad, I show that. Social media is trying to push the narrative that marriage isn\u2019t important but actually is. \u201cI was reading something and a working lady was saying it was until she got married that people started respecting her. <\/p>\n
The reason people see marriage as a problem is that we\u2019ve lost time having conversations.\u201d \u201cGo out for dinner anywhere and everyone is on their phone when dinner is meant for you to see the environment and reminisce on things. People are scared from the beginning of relationships to let the other know about them.\u201d<\/p>\n
Kemi FIlani recalls that inn 2019, Ubi filed for divorce in an Abuja court, but the judge threw out the case. On January 28th, 2021, the divorce was finalized, at an Abuja court, with Lilian taking custody of their son, Jayden. The couple had a lengthy divorce trial and this took a toll on Lilian\u2019s mental health. <\/p>\n
She slid into depression and had to seek help. She got help and decided to speak about her issues during a rare Instagram LIVE session with Pastor Bolaji Idowu, the Lead Pastor of Harvesters International Christian Centre (HICC) on Monday, December 5th, 2022.<\/p>\n
This was the first time she was going to address her issues and the discussion turned out to be revealing as she openly talked about her depression and the steps she took to get out. <\/p>\n
The CEO of the Lioca Group, which includes a spa business as well as a skincare brand, said depression and other mental health issues are not talked about as much as they should be in this part of the world. \u201cIt is not something I think anyone should go through, and I was there. I\u2019ve had my fair share; to be very honest with you, I almost threw in the towel.<\/p>\n
\u201cAgain, we should be mindful of the people we surround ourselves with. I just wanted to be away from everybody; at that time, I\u2019m sure many people noticed. At that point, I even stopped appearing on screen. I just lost interest in everything and everyone. I crawled into a shell that I\u2019m wondering where it went to now.\u201d<\/p>\n
The mother of one also revealed how her battle with depression led her to birth a foundation in 2017 to help other women going through the same struggles. \u201cIn my depressed state, I thought my life was entirely over. What more could I do? My acting career, how long can it sustain me? I just had a lot of things in my head.<\/p>\n
\u201cAs a single mum, I have extra baggage; how do I go about it? How do I move about it? This is something that God has bestowed on top of me. Am I ready for this? And sometimes, I found the courage. Bless her soul, and my mum also played a huge part in helping me,\u201d she said. To help herself, the 40-year-old actress said she threw herself into work, day and night.<\/p>\n
She said, \u201cI took on jobs nonstop. I took on jobs back to back, and I was not relenting. I was working tirelessly like a mad person. I could count how many times I slept on my bed because it was from one set to another.<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019m just here to encourage those who feel their life is over wherever they think they\u2019re, even if they are single parents. Believe it or not, it\u2019s not the end of your life. It\u2019s something that I feel I need to tell a lot of people. Don\u2019t stay down.\u201d<\/p>\n
The first step towards healing, she said, was to forgive herself. \u201cI\u2019m now open to having a relationship and having an open mind because when you expect too much, they might end up failing you. <\/p>\n
So I\u2019m going with an open heart and an open mind, new blessings, everything new and fresh. \u201cIf it happens, it happens. If it doesn\u2019t, we have many goals. I will focus my energy on more creative things rather than the hurt, pain and baggage. It\u2019s over and done.\u201d <\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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