{"id":1267343,"date":"2022-12-19T08:58:58","date_gmt":"2022-12-19T08:58:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/12\/19\/a-man-should-feel-ashamed-if-he-allows-his-woman-pay-her-bills\/"},"modified":"2022-12-19T08:58:58","modified_gmt":"2022-12-19T08:58:58","slug":"a-man-should-feel-ashamed-if-he-allows-his-woman-pay-her-bills","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/12\/19\/a-man-should-feel-ashamed-if-he-allows-his-woman-pay-her-bills\/","title":{"rendered":"A man should feel ashamed if he allows his woman pay her bills"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div data-td-block-uid=\"tdi_33\">\n<div class=\"tdb-block-inner td-fix-index\">\n<p><span class=\"td-adspot-title\">&#8211;  &#8211;<\/span><br \/>\n<!-- ResponsiveAll --><\/p>\n<h2><strong>In the west, women don\u2019t perceive men as ATM cards; they consider it their job to take care of themselves.<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>In Africa, once a male begins dating a lady, she becomes an orphan and dumps all her debts on the innocent guy whose only fault was to say \u201cI love you.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>My belief is that a partnership is for the good of both parties, thus women should pay their own costs and in certain circumstances their men\u2019s, and vice versa.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not required, but she may be seen as a burden otherwise. Men aren\u2019t banks. A Nigerian woman\u2019s shocking tweet has sparked a heated discussion.<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"td-adspot-title\">&#8211;  &#8211;<\/span><br \/>\n<!-- ResponsiveAll --><\/p>\n<p>According to @Jojonitq, males should feel humiliated and worthless if their wives pay their expenses.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-width=\"550\" data-dnt=\"true\">\n<p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">A man shouldn\u2019t feel low.<br \/>there were times I took my male friends out and the bill was on me and there was also a time we had to split bill. We are all grown. Economy is also had. The burden shouldn\u2019t be on one person.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Oma Ruth (@Girl_Boss15) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/Girl_Boss15\/status\/1603709844934234113?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">December 16, 2022<\/a><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-width=\"550\" data-dnt=\"true\">\n<p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">I remember this girl I ask to come around let\u2019s see talk &amp; know each other better. Picked her up &amp; next thing she said let\u2019s goto a supermarket close by. I obliged. Anyways when it was time 2 checkout, I told her I\u2019ll be waiting in the car. That was d last day she ever spoke 2 me<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Oboks Jnr \ud83c\uddf3\ud83c\uddec\ud83c\uddf5\ud83c\uddf1 (@Oboksjnr) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/Oboksjnr\/status\/1603702396638711808?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">December 16, 2022<\/a><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><span class=\"td-adspot-title\">&#8211;  &#8211;<\/span><br \/>\n<!-- ResponsiveAll --><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-width=\"550\" data-dnt=\"true\">\n<p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">Before saying anything on this\u2026 How many times has your mother paid for her stuffs herself while your father is around? How to balance this mathematics<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Boy-Conssor \u2664\u2667 (@ConssorX) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/ConssorX\/status\/1603703041856835585?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">December 16, 2022<\/a><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><script async src=\"\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8211; &#8211; In the west, women don\u2019t perceive men as ATM cards; they consider it their job to take care of themselves. In Africa, once a male begins dating a lady, she becomes an orphan and dumps all her debts on the innocent guy whose only fault was to say \u201cI love you.\u201d My belief [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1267344,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[10198,4524,3217,697,1367,1029],"class_list":["post-1267343","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-entertainment","tag-ashamed","tag-bills","tag-feel","tag-man","tag-pay","tag-woman"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1267343","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1267343"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1267343\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1267343"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1267343"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1267343"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}