{"id":1266323,"date":"2022-12-16T23:25:09","date_gmt":"2022-12-16T23:25:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/12\/16\/men-should-feel-ashamed-if-they-allow-women-pay-their-own-bills\/"},"modified":"2022-12-16T23:25:09","modified_gmt":"2022-12-16T23:25:09","slug":"men-should-feel-ashamed-if-they-allow-women-pay-their-own-bills","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/12\/16\/men-should-feel-ashamed-if-they-allow-women-pay-their-own-bills\/","title":{"rendered":"Men should feel ashamed if they allow women pay their own bills"},"content":{"rendered":"

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In the western part of the world, women don\u2019t view men as ATM cards \u2013 Hence they don\u2019t burden them with their personal needs because they deem it as their own responsibility to take care of themselves.<\/p>\n

But here in Africa, the moment a guy starts dating a woman, she automatically turns into an orphan and therefore pushes all her bills on the innocent guy whose crime was only to say \u201cI love you\u201d.<\/p>\n

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In my view, a relationship is for the betterment of both partners which means women should normalize paying for their own bills from time to time, & also pay for that of their men in some cases and vice versa.<\/p>\n

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It\u2019s not a must, but it\u2019s the smartest thing to do otherwise she may be regarded as a liability. Men ain\u2019t ATMs.<\/p>\n

A Nigerian lady has gone viral on Twitter over a controversial statement which has ignited a hot debate on the micro-blogging platform.<\/p>\n

According to the lady who can be identified on the micro-blogging platform as @Jojonitq, men should feel ashamed and sense of uselessness if they allow their women to pay their bills.<\/p>\n

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@Limastandard \u2013 Omo like this my babe gave me 72 hours max. She said I have to provide her house rent (although she paid already) but I have to refund her. I have been running enter sketter since. House rent is 170k. Please guys donate for me<\/strong><\/p>\n

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A man shouldn\u2019t feel low.
there were times I took my male friends out and the bill was on me and there was also a time we had to split bill. We are all grown. Economy is also had. The burden shouldn\u2019t be on one person.<\/p>\n

\u2014 Oma Ruth (@Girl_Boss15) December 16, 2022<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n<\/figure>\n

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I remember this girl I ask to come around let\u2019s see talk & know each other better. Picked her up & next thing she said let\u2019s goto a supermarket close by. I obliged. Anyways when it was time 2 checkout, I told her I\u2019ll be waiting in the car. That was d last day she ever spoke 2 me<\/p>\n

\u2014 Oboks Jnr ???? (@Oboksjnr) December 16, 2022<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n<\/figure>\n

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May you always see money in your old clothes ijn<\/p>\n

\u2014 Akueje Godson (@AkuejeG) December 16, 2022<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n<\/figure>\n

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But as a lady Shey u self no dey shame Shey Na this guys born u\u2026 abi for una pass life them own u money wey they most pay u back abi what kind of rubbish is this any small thing guys most pay this guys most do that woman no dey take care of man for una house<\/p>\n

\u2014 (\u00d2LUW\u00c1T\u00d2Y\u00cdN) (@oluwatoyin0909) December 16, 2022<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n<\/figure>\n

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Before saying anything on this\u2026 How many times has your mother paid for her stuffs herself while your father is around? How to balance this mathematics<\/p>\n

\u2014 Boy-Conssor ?? (@ConssorX) December 16, 2022<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n