{"id":1246101,"date":"2022-11-07T19:34:12","date_gmt":"2022-11-07T19:34:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/11\/07\/7-signs-shes-using-you-walking-all-over-you-and-playing-you-for-fun\/"},"modified":"2022-11-07T19:34:12","modified_gmt":"2022-11-07T19:34:12","slug":"7-signs-shes-using-you-walking-all-over-you-and-playing-you-for-fun","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/11\/07\/7-signs-shes-using-you-walking-all-over-you-and-playing-you-for-fun\/","title":{"rendered":"7 Signs She\u2019s Using You, Walking All Over You, and Playing You For Fun"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div>\n<article>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/50f6cd208e1341a9a25d0d9737c5c7d1\"\/>Men tend to think that the more they invest in the girl, the more she&#8217;ll appreciate and love them. Sadly, even though you could be dropping big bucks on her, it doesn&#8217;t mean she feels the same. You need to learn the signs she&#8217;s using.<\/p>\n<p><strong>1. You feel incomplete.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>When you&#8217;re around her, you feel like something is missing, almost as if you&#8217;re not complete. This is because she&#8217;s not reciprocating with her emotions. You want to please her and make her fall for you, but instead, the plan backfired. Now you&#8217;ve fallen into your own trap.<\/p>\n<p><strong>2. Rewards come when you do something for her.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>She manipulates you into doing something that you may not feel comfortable doing in order for her to get the carrot in front of your face. The &#8220;carrot&#8221; could be sex, commitment, or even affection. Whatever it is that you need from her, she&#8217;s using it to get what she wants.<\/p>\n<p><strong>3. There&#8217;s no affection.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/a1760ee01ba14810ab68216eddcdd265\"\/>There&#8217;s been no physical contact or sweet words exchanged between you. It causes you to question, &#8220;Is she using me?&#8221; and it&#8217;s probably a sign that indeed she is. She displays signs of affection on bed, but not in public.<\/p>\n<p><strong>4. She&#8217;s available at certain times.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Have you noticed that she only hangs out with you before the evening or only after 10 p.m.? If it&#8217;s after 10 p.m., she may only see you as a booty call. Before the evening, she isn&#8217;t interested in spending her nights beside you. She&#8217;s simply putting you on shifts that suit her.<\/p>\n<p><strong>5. You&#8217;re a bad person when you say what you want.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You may be slowly catching on to the fact that you&#8217;re not getting what you want out of the relationship. You&#8217;re probably often wondering, &#8220;Is she using me?&#8221; or if she even cares. If your needs aren&#8217;t being met, then you may have approached her, telling her how it feels.<\/p>\n<p><strong>6. She&#8217;s a pretty complex person.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>When you finally have enough to question her about her behavior and whether or not she wants to be with you, she&#8217;s sobbing in your arms. Keep an eye on this. Does she almost always break down, act vulnerable, and come crawling to you each time you stand up for yourself? It&#8217;s one of the signs she&#8217;s using you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>7. You often question yourself if she&#8217;s into you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Have you ever wondered if your girlfriend likes you, or if she even likes you? If you feel like she&#8217;s using you for everything you have, then you&#8217;re probably right.<\/p>\n<p>Content created and supplied by: Intimacy (via  Opera<br \/>\nNews )<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<p class=\"copyright hide\">\n<span class=\"content\">    ,  .   ,     .       () , , , , , , , , .      \/ ,  and\/or  .     ,  , and\/or  ,      and\/or     <\/span><br \/>\n<span class=\"see-more\"><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<section class=\"tags\">\n<\/section>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Men tend to think that the more they invest in the girl, the more she&#8217;ll appreciate and love them. Sadly, even though you could be dropping big bucks on her, it doesn&#8217;t mean she feels the same. You need to learn the signs she&#8217;s using. 1. You feel incomplete. 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