{"id":1242232,"date":"2022-11-02T18:29:49","date_gmt":"2022-11-02T18:29:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/11\/02\/watch-womans-date-expects-them-to-split-tab-before-boasting-about-his-high-salary\/"},"modified":"2022-11-02T18:29:49","modified_gmt":"2022-11-02T18:29:49","slug":"watch-womans-date-expects-them-to-split-tab-before-boasting-about-his-high-salary","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/11\/02\/watch-womans-date-expects-them-to-split-tab-before-boasting-about-his-high-salary\/","title":{"rendered":"WATCH: Woman\u2019s date expects them to split tab before boasting about his high salary"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div data-td-block-uid=\"tdi_104\">\n<div class=\"tdb-block-inner td-fix-index\">\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/image-prod.iol.co.za\/16x9\/800?source=https:\/\/xlibris.public.prod.oc.inl.infomaker.io:8443\/opencontent\/objects\/ce7d86b1-92f8-50c8-8297-3a0a03300514&amp;operation=CROP&amp;offset=0x2541&amp;resize=3880x2183\" class=\"type:primaryImage\"\/><\/p>\n<p>For a long time, many believed that men should pay the bill; but modern times have taught us to be independent and that choosing to split the bill isn\u2019t such a big deal after all. <\/p>\n<p>A TikTok user shared a video where she explains how her first date went wrong as her wealthy date expected them to split the tab. <\/p>\n<p>There is a fine line between being stingy and selfish, and this date seemed a little on the stingy side<\/p>\n<p>There was a good start to the date; she explains that he had asked her to choose the restaurant where they will be having their very first date. <\/p>\n<p>That seems like a nice suggestion, right? You get to have dinner somewhere, a little fancier than Burger King.<\/p>\n<figure><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"baobab-embedded-image\" src=\"https:\/\/image-prod.iol.co.za\/resize\/650x65000?source=https:\/\/xlibris.public.prod.oc.inl.infomaker.io:8443\/opencontent\/objects\/f489a7c3-4ddc-5c41-8570-b703ab695b03\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"650\"\/><figcaption>Is hybrid dating the new norm? l COTTONBRO FROM PEXELS <\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>She said her date told her that she could pick any place to have dinner at; except where drinks cost $30 (R543), she didn\u2019t think much of it, as many of us are trying to save money.<\/p>\n<p>The date seemingly went well. The cheque came down $90 and he then asked if they could split it, and the TikTok user didn\u2019t have a problem with it and proceeded to do so.<\/p>\n<p>However, hours later he said to her: \u201cOh just so you know, I make like $100 000 a year; you know like I have lots of money.\u201d He added that he wanted to break the stereotype of men paying on the first date. <\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"tiktok-embed\" cite=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@alexandloveland\/video\/7154401658045500718\" data-video-id=\"7154401658045500718\" style=\"max-width: 605px;min-width: 325px\">\n<section> @alexandloveland If you\u2019re going to lie don\u2019t be condescending about it #foryoupage \u266c original sound \u2013 user774045 <\/section>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>This ruined the experience for her and she said that she felt lied to. <\/p>\n<p>One comment read: \u2018\u2019Never get involved with a man who\u2019s \u2018testing\u2019 you from the start.\u2019\u2019<\/p>\n<p>Many viewers agreed that the date should have paid for the date, considering his salary. But he chose to use this as an opportunity to teach her a \u201clesson\u2019\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Another user commented: \u2018\u2019If someone who asked me out wanted to split the bill I would pay the whole thing and never see them again \u2018bye, Boy\u2019.\u201c <\/p>\n<p>Tip: Don\u2019t be like Mr 6 figures.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.iol.co.za\/lifestyle\/love-sex\/relationships\/watch-womans-date-expects-them-to-split-tab-before-boasting-about-his-high-salary-2f4e5666-d910-49e2-a50c-bbcc7c3412a0\">Source <\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For a long time, many believed that men should pay the bill; but modern times have taught us to be independent and that choosing to split the bill isn\u2019t such a big deal after all. A TikTok user shared a video where she explains how her first date went wrong as her wealthy date expected [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[21],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1242232","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","category-celebrity-gossip"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1242232","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1242232"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1242232\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1242232"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1242232"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1242232"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}