{"id":1226665,"date":"2022-10-17T13:32:44","date_gmt":"2022-10-17T13:32:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/10\/17\/ive-advised-my-son-never-to-date-a-lady-from-a-poor-background\/"},"modified":"2022-10-17T13:32:44","modified_gmt":"2022-10-17T13:32:44","slug":"ive-advised-my-son-never-to-date-a-lady-from-a-poor-background","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/10\/17\/ive-advised-my-son-never-to-date-a-lady-from-a-poor-background\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;I&#8217;ve advised my son never to date a lady from a poor background&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div data-td-block-uid=\"tdi_78\">\n<div class=\"tdb-block-inner td-fix-index\">\n<p><span class=\"td-adspot-title\">&#8211;  &#8211;<\/span><\/p>\n<p>They are different types of poverty, and they are transitional poverty, marginal poverty, residual poverty, absolute poverty and relative poverty. <\/p>\n<p>Unfortunately, a person in survival mode only has one goal: Survival. <\/p>\n<p>Considering Maslow\u2019s hierarchy of needs, a person who is trapped in a multi-dimensional poverty-stricken country like Ghana, Nigeria and the rest of Africa is bound not to understand the basic needs of a humans which are love and belongingness i.e human emotional needs.<\/p>\n<p>It is at the back of this that a Nigerian father who can be found on Twitter as @revelationrabbi has advised his son never to date or marry a girl from a poor background.<\/p>\n<p>According to the author who is believed to be doing financially well citing his controversial tweet, most ladies from poor backgrounds don\u2019t believe in love, they just want to escape their unfortunate conditions. <\/p>\n<p>More so, they\u2019re the saviours their families are banking on to lift them out of poverty thereby making it very risky for any man to date or marry them because they will ruin their finances.<\/p>\n<p>He tweeted;<\/p>\n<p><strong>I told my son yesterday to avoid dating a girl from a poor background. In my dating experience, most of them don\u2019t believe in love, they just want to escape their unfortunate conditions. More so, they\u2019re the saviors their families are banking on to lift them out of poverty.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>They don\u2019t appreciate little things; they believe you can do more.<\/strong><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-rich is-provider-twitter wp-block-embed-twitter\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-width=\"550\" data-dnt=\"true\">\n<p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">I told my son yesterday to avoid dating a girl from a poor background.<\/p>\n<p>In my dating experience, most of them don&#8217;t believe in love, they just want to escape their unfortunate conditions. More so, they&#8217;re the saviors their families are banking on to lift them out of poverty.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Ola (@revelationrabbi) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/revelationrabbi\/status\/1580945595535020032?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 14, 2022<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<p>Background is important in marriage but shouldn\u2019t be the deciding factor. A man should marry a woman that is willing to build with him and is willing to contribute her quota to the union that said; the woman should have a job or a trade, not a liability.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><script async src=\"\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8211; &#8211; They are different types of poverty, and they are transitional poverty, marginal poverty, residual poverty, absolute poverty and relative poverty. Unfortunately, a person in survival mode only has one goal: Survival. Considering Maslow\u2019s hierarchy of needs, a person who is trapped in a multi-dimensional poverty-stricken country like Ghana, Nigeria and the rest of [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1226670,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[2135,14608,215,7614,571,184,479],"class_list":["post-1226665","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-entertainment","tag-advised","tag-background","tag-date","tag-ive","tag-lady","tag-poor","tag-son"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1226665","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1226665"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1226665\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1226665"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1226665"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1226665"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}