{"id":1218952,"date":"2022-10-08T11:00:31","date_gmt":"2022-10-08T11:00:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/10\/08\/i-had-suicidal-thoughts-after-i-found-out-i-was-intersex-man-raised-as-a-female\/"},"modified":"2022-10-08T11:00:31","modified_gmt":"2022-10-08T11:00:31","slug":"i-had-suicidal-thoughts-after-i-found-out-i-was-intersex-man-raised-as-a-female","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/10\/08\/i-had-suicidal-thoughts-after-i-found-out-i-was-intersex-man-raised-as-a-female\/","title":{"rendered":"I had suicidal thoughts after I found out I was intersex &#8211; Man raised as a female"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div>\n<article>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/878063c534094eb8aff60cd65e38ced6\"\/>Founder of the Intersex Society of Zambia, Mphatso Sakala, has revealed he became suicidal after finding out about his biological condition.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>According to Mphatso, his parents decided to raise him as a girl even though he did not have a female reproductive organ. Despite having what looked like a penis, Mphatso had the internal traits of a girl. As a result, doctors could not identify him with a particular .\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>In an interview on SVTV Africa with DJ Nyaami, the activist mentioned that he dressed like a girl and attended a girl\u2019s school but had no vagina. Upon this realisation, Mphatso began asking questions about his identity. That caused him to be suicidal.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBefore I came to understand why I was different, I thought about committing suicide several times. I felt God had neglected (and asked) why I was born this way. (I thought) no one would ever love me, and maybe it\u2019s true that I was cursed.<\/p>\n<p>People will tell you intersex people are cursed and demon-possessed. I didn\u2019t want to be associated with that. I hated that to the point that I wished to commit suicide,\u201d he noted.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Speaking on his condition, Mphatso indicated that he has both ovarian (found in women) and testicular (found in men) tissues. Also, he began developing breasts as he aged.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIn the past, they measured the length of the child\u2019s penis. If it doesn\u2019t pass a certain length, then it will be considered a clitoris. That is what happened in my case. They considered it a large clitoris,\u201d he added.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Intersex Society of Zambia is an NGO that encourages the recognition and protection of the rights of intersex persons in Zambia. Mphatso Sakala is the head of the organisation.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Kindly watch the full interview below;<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"I Was Born With Both Male And Female Features, My Parents Raised Me As A Female\" width=\"696\" height=\"392\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/qMcP_LYJTxU?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>Content created and supplied by: SVTVAfrica.com (via  Opera<br \/>\nNews )<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<p class=\"copyright hide\">\n<span class=\"content\">    ,  .   ,     .       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