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– –<\/span> Relationship counsellor Uncle Ebo Whyte has advised women to do away with insecurities in their relationships because it makes it easier for their male partners to manipulate them.<\/p>\n He revealed this to Cookie Tee on the Heart bay segment of the TV3 New Day morning show. In a discussion about privacy in relationships, Uncle Ebo Whyte pointed out that the absence of trust breeds insecurities.<\/p>\n Uncle Ebo Whyte projected that men love insecure ladies because they can lie and manipulate them as they want. – –<\/span> \u201cMen love the women who don\u2019t trust us. It\u2019s easy to fool them. It\u2019s very easy. When I am relating to you, and I know you are suspicious of me, you make me alert. You won\u2019t see anything, and yet a lot could be going on.\u201d<\/p>\n According to Uncle Ebo Whyte, it is rather advantageous to leave men to their own devices, leaving them with the knowledge that you trust them.<\/p>\n – –<\/span> That way, their conscience would fight off temptations. Compared to a sulky attitude because you accused him wrongly. He would say, \u201cthat girl, she would say I have even if I haven\u2019t. So I might as well do it. And then find ways of covering it up. If she catches me, that\u2019s that!\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cSo let us understand that for trust, the person doesn\u2019t need to be worthy of the trust. Let him know, \u2018I trust you.\u2019 With time, he would rise to his best self because that\u2019s what trust does to us.\u201d<\/p>\n Using a real story to buttress his point, Uncle Ebo Whyte narrated a story of a woman who spoke affirmations into her husband\u2019s life despite his rather dubious activities.<\/p>\n He said after a while, the husband realized his foolery and changed his ways. And when he asked his wife why she never believed all the rumours (although true) about him, she knew her words would get back to him because she was speaking to his better self.<\/p>\n Uncle Ebo Whyte advised partners in relationships to do away with the pain from past relationships and make room for love and trust.<\/p>\n – –<\/span> – – Relationship counsellor Uncle Ebo Whyte has advised women to do away with insecurities in their relationships because it makes it easier for their male partners to manipulate them. He revealed this to Cookie Tee on the Heart bay segment of the TV3 New Day morning show. In a discussion about privacy in relationships, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1196760,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[9217,5872,3488,476,698,24998],"class_list":["post-1196759","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-entertainment","tag-cheat","tag-easier","tag-insecure","tag-love","tag-men","tag-womenit"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1196759","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1196759"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1196759\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1196759"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1196759"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1196759"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
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He explained that men often make decisions based on how insecure their women act. He said these alert men on when to cheat and when not to do so.<\/p>\n
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Why? Because one day, his friends called him a fool because he was messing around whilst your wife thought the best of him.<\/p>\n
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