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If you\u2019ve been married a while, you\u2019ll know how difficult it is to keep the sparks of sexual chemistry flying. In fact, after about the first 2 years, those sparks are hard to come by in many marriages.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s not boredom that causes this effect. There\u2019s a scientific reason: our personal attitudes toward sexuality.<\/p>\n
A 2017\u00a0study\u00a0determined that if we believe \u201cgood sex\u201d is a matter of destiny, we\u2019re going to be disappointed. The truth is that enduringly good sex isn\u2019t about destiny; it\u2019s about mutual commitment and work.<\/p>\n
Here, we\u2019ll examine 7 ways to rekindle the sexual chemistry in your marriage. The excitement, passion, and attraction are still there \u2013 they\u2019re just sleeping.<\/p>\n
So, let\u2019s figure out how to rekindle that spontaneous combustion between you and keep it burning.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Many married couples lose the sexual spark between them, never questioning why. They carry on, believing other factors compensate for sexlessness. While wistfully remembering the\u00a0honeymoon period\u00a0of their relationship, they slide almost unconsciously into being roommates instead of lovers.<\/p>\n
But connection changes everything. Sustained eye contact, holding hands, and physical closeness are all components of sexual chemistry. Reintroducing these connective behaviors will remind you both why you got married to begin with.<\/p>\n
Remember the curiosity you felt about your spouse when you first met? You wanted to know everything about them! So, why don\u2019t you now? Maybe you feel you know everything there is to know about your partner.<\/p>\n
But just like life, your spouse is a constantly evolving reality. Renewing your interest in what your spouse thinks, believes, and desires helps to refresh your initial sexual chemistry. Curiosity drives rekindled interest, including sexual interest.<\/p>\n
Pheromones are part of what provokes sexual attraction. While existing in all mammals and in insects, when human pheromones are released, they have an attractive effect that\u2019s not consciously registered.<\/p>\n
Imagine a\u00a0pheromone-based elixir\u00a0you could daub a small amount of on your skin to boost your sexual appeal. That elixir has arrived, allowing you to ignite sexual chemistry by stealth. Before you know it, you\u2019ll feel like you\u2019re on your honeymoon again!<\/p>\n
The comfortable familiarity you feel in a marriage is wonderful. But that comfort is a double-edged sword. It can lead to sexual neglect. The solution is to\u00a0restore the romance\u00a0that once sustained your love.<\/p>\n
Go on a date. Dress up for each other. Give each other significant gifts \u201cjust because\u201d. Romance is intimacy. It\u2019s your mutual history as a couple, so make an effort to restore its loving presence in your marriage.<\/p>\n
Married couples can get in a rut of sitting in front of the television. But in the hours you spend together glued to the TV, you could be doing something exciting, instead.<\/p>\n
Plan adventures that speak to your mutual interests. Adventure doesn\u2019t need to be a long-distance journey. It can be something as simple as a trip to the museum or even the amusement park. It can be skydiving or having a picnic in your own living room or the park across the street! Get creative and watch the sparks ignite.<\/p>\n
Getting the sexual ball rolling can be a challenge but introducing some fun to the bedroom is a time-honored way of achieving that.\u00a0Sex toys, sexy costumes, and other adult accessories turn up the heat.<\/p>\n
Pleasure-enhancing aids bring novelty and giggles to your sex life, offering sexual adventure that titillates you both. Introduce the idea with a flirty smile and an ironically raised eyebrow and watch your partner leap aboard.<\/p>\n
Communication is at the heart of any relationship. And in marriage, it\u2019s the key to rekindling your sexual chemistry. But before communication can happen, you need to know what\u2019s going on with\u00a0you<\/em>. What do you want?<\/p>\n Connecting with your own dissatisfaction is key to finding out what\u2019s going on with your spouse. Only then can communication occur. Sometimes, those communicative efforts may require the help of a\u00a0third party. Go deep to let the communication between the two of you flow freely.<\/p>\n Rekindling the sexual chemistry in your marriage is about love above everything else. Your love is real and you need to do the work to keep those sparks flying. Renew your commitment to each other by nurturing the sexual chemistry that once drew you together.<\/p>\nFind that Sensual Spark<\/strong><\/h4>\n