{"id":1118991,"date":"2022-06-12T08:12:22","date_gmt":"2022-06-12T08:12:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/06\/12\/since-2-weeks-my-life-has-turned-upside-down-i-really-need-an-advice\/"},"modified":"2022-06-12T08:12:22","modified_gmt":"2022-06-12T08:12:22","slug":"since-2-weeks-my-life-has-turned-upside-down-i-really-need-an-advice","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/06\/12\/since-2-weeks-my-life-has-turned-upside-down-i-really-need-an-advice\/","title":{"rendered":"Since 2 Weeks My Life Has Turned Upside Down, I really Need An Advice"},"content":{"rendered":"

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I\u00a0am 31 years and had a relationship for 15 years with a man who is also 34years of age. 2 weeks ago I found out he was abroad, without telling me. He also was active on Tinder. When I confronted him on WhatsApp, he blocked me everywhere.<\/p>\n

A few days later I found out I’m pregnant. I had to go to his house, since I was blocked literally everywhere. I came there and had to found out he had moved!!! I was going crazy in my head at that moment.<\/p>\n

A few days later he unblocked and a couple days ago he came to my house to talk. He only wanted to talk about the pregnancy, not all the other stuff. I decided to still confront him, but he kept lying shameless in my face. Saying that he never went to Turkey and so on. I was crying, he gave me a tissue.. not even a hug. And he kept telling me I would have a hard time with a baby and if I thought about the consequences. There was no \u201cus\u201d in his mouth, only \u201cme\u201d.<\/p>\n

Yesterday he asked on WhatsApp how my appointment was and I said I didn’t feel supported by him. He asked me how he could support me if I didn’t tell him anything. And he knew I never trustet him.<\/p>\n

And then I got mad.. I said I don’t trust him since the last 2 weeks. And I said how he can expect that I do tell him everything, while he keeps lying in my face. I said: r figure out your problems, before that I don’t want to hear anything anymore.<\/p>\n

He texted \u201cthx, I know how you are now\u201d and he blocked me again.<\/p>\n

Was I too hard? A few hours later I emailed him and apologized. Saying that I said those things in the heat of the moment but that I need an honest conversation, without lies.<\/p>\n

I don’t know what to do now, still being blocked and pregnant with him. Was I so rude? I don’t know what to do now. When we had arguments before he would sometimes give me the silent treatment and that could last for 2 weeks. I always am the one who apologize. I really don’t know what to do anymore.<\/p>\n

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