{"id":1116908,"date":"2022-06-10T11:05:17","date_gmt":"2022-06-10T11:05:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/06\/10\/4-controls-you-need-for-a-successful-marriage-and-relationship\/"},"modified":"2022-06-10T11:05:17","modified_gmt":"2022-06-10T11:05:17","slug":"4-controls-you-need-for-a-successful-marriage-and-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/06\/10\/4-controls-you-need-for-a-successful-marriage-and-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"4 Controls You Need For A Successful Marriage And Relationship"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div>\n<article>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/03a1bb8fbb104b0dad99240f5fed28b6\"\/><\/p>\n<p>The Peace in many Relationships and Marriages were killed by a loose tongue<\/p>\n<p>Words can Kill<\/p>\n<p>When your tongue is as sharp as &#8220;aboki&#8221; knife, as bitter as bitter kola, and as lethal as snake venom, your Relationship\/Marriage will look like a victim of jungle justice<\/p>\n<p>Let your words be edited before they are published from your mouth<\/p>\n<p>2. Ability to stay in control of yourself when angry is priceless.<\/p>\n<p>When you get angry, do you explode? Or you implode.<\/p>\n<p>When you get angry, do you go beast mode<\/p>\n<p>Learn good anger management skills at every stage of your life, it&#8217;s needed.<\/p>\n<p>5 minutes Anger can make you ruin a Relationship\/Marriage that has taken you 5 Years to build.<\/p>\n<p>3. When Envious, When Sad, When Unhappy, your emotion should not fully determine your actions, but your spiritual and moral conviction.<\/p>\n<p>You must be able to display stability irrespective of the instability of your moods as they come and go.<\/p>\n<p>Mood Swings if not well managed can Swing your Relationship\/Marriage away<\/p>\n<p>4. Discipline is very important in this area.. Sex is just an appetite, it shouldn&#8217;t control you<\/p>\n<p>I remember a Man who lost a beautiful Marriage of over 6 years because of his &#8220;love for buttocks&#8221; as he himself put it.<\/p>\n<p>Even if you&#8217;re in a Relationship or Married, you&#8217;ll be tempted.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ll still see People with bigger, firmer, &#8216;more perfect&#8217; body parts and better physical appeal, some will even offer themselves to you for free like a living sacrifice, but you must be able to say &#8220;No, I&#8217;m in a relationship\/married&#8221;, otherwise.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t lose your Marriage because you are loss<\/p>\n<p>Content created and supplied by: LizzyMedia (via  Opera<br \/>\nNews )<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<p class=\"copyright hide\">\n<span class=\"content\">    ,  .   ,     .       () , , , , , , , , .      \/ ,  and\/or  .     ,  , and\/or  ,      and\/or     <\/span><br \/>\n<span class=\"see-more\"><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<section class=\"tags\">\n<\/section>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The Peace in many Relationships and Marriages were killed by a loose tongue Words can Kill When your tongue is as sharp as &#8220;aboki&#8221; knife, as bitter as bitter kola, and as lethal as snake venom, your Relationship\/Marriage will look like a victim of jungle justice Let your words be edited before they are published [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1116909,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[12194,628,2407,2134],"class_list":["post-1116908","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-top-stories","tag-controls","tag-marriage","tag-relationship","tag-successful"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1116908","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1116908"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1116908\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1116908"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1116908"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1116908"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}