{"id":1109024,"date":"2022-06-03T11:41:12","date_gmt":"2022-06-03T11:41:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/06\/03\/should-i-try-and-find-feelings-somewhere-for-him-and-stay-just-because-we-have-kids-a-woman-asked\/"},"modified":"2022-06-03T11:41:12","modified_gmt":"2022-06-03T11:41:12","slug":"should-i-try-and-find-feelings-somewhere-for-him-and-stay-just-because-we-have-kids-a-woman-asked","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/06\/03\/should-i-try-and-find-feelings-somewhere-for-him-and-stay-just-because-we-have-kids-a-woman-asked\/","title":{"rendered":"Should I Try And Find Feelings Somewhere For Him And Stay Just Because We Have Kids? A Woman Asked"},"content":{"rendered":"

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My child\u2019s father and I had our son unplanned and very unexpectedly. It was about 1 year into our relationship and he wasn\u2019t exactly happy. Over the course of the following 2 years things were bad. <\/p>\n

He mistreated me in various ways and I was very unhappy. Often told me he had no desire for me and much more. He told me over those 3 years, multiple times, that he\u2019d never marry me. He just couldn\u2019t see it. I want marriage. It\u2019s one of my main goals in life. To be a wife. After feeling drained mentally and emotionally and even physically, I decided to leave him. Not only did he say he\u2019d never marry me, but things just weren\u2019t getting better. <\/p>\n

After we split, he began his single life. Meeting and sleeping with other women. And pretty much just discarding me. Which I eventually got over. Things were fine up until I moved on. Once I started dating he suddenly found this profound love for me and begged for me back. Stoped dealing with other women, which it was 4, and moved his attention to getting me and our family back. He\u2019s also suddenly\u00a0soo sure that I\u2019m the one he wants to marry. <\/p>\n

I call bullshit!!! I want to find real love. I want to find a man who sees my worth and is sure about me the first time around. A man who can see that I\u2019d make a good wife and make efforts to keep me and show me that. Not a man who\u2019s unsure for 3 years and once I move on wants to beg for me back My question is, am I wrong for feeling this? Is what I\u2019m looking for kind of a fairytale? Should I try and find feelings somewhere for him and stay just because we have kids?<\/p>\n

Should I try and find feelings somewhere for him and stay just because we have kids?<\/p>\n

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My child\u2019s father and I had our son unplanned and very unexpectedly. It was about 1 year into our relationship and he wasn\u2019t exactly happy. Over the course of the following 2 years things were bad. He mistreated me in various ways and I was very unhappy. Often told me he had no desire for […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1109025,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[754,6885,288,1037,1102,1029],"class_list":["post-1109024","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-top-stories","tag-asked","tag-feelings","tag-find","tag-kids","tag-stay","tag-woman"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1109024","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1109024"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1109024\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1109024"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1109024"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1109024"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}