{"id":1108872,"date":"2022-06-03T09:44:17","date_gmt":"2022-06-03T09:44:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/06\/03\/most-women-dont-want-to-make-themselves-useful\/"},"modified":"2022-06-03T09:44:17","modified_gmt":"2022-06-03T09:44:17","slug":"most-women-dont-want-to-make-themselves-useful","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/06\/03\/most-women-dont-want-to-make-themselves-useful\/","title":{"rendered":"Most Women Don&#8217;t Want To Make Themselves Useful"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div>\n<h2 id=\"h-marriage-expert-and-relationship-counsellor-charlotte-oduro-has-posed-a-big-questions-to-women-who-intend-to-go-into-marriages\">Marriage expert and relationship counsellor Charlotte Oduro has posed a big questions to women who intend to go into marriages.<\/h2>\n<p>She asked posed questions like, \u2018what are you adding\u2019, what\u2019s your identity as a woman and many more while talking about how women don\u2019t have anything to support their husbands with except for making babies.<\/p>\n<p>She urged women to make sure they build themselves and be useful so that they become a developmental entity to their husband instead of becoming a burden.<\/p>\n<p><strong>READ ALSO: Men Who Use Their Wives\u2019 Resources To Take Care Of Side Chics Often Suffer Stroke \u2013 Charlotte Oduro<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>According to him, if women bring nothing to the table except for sxx, their men will eventually get fed up with them and wouldn\u2019t want to associate with them anymore.<\/p>\n<p>She advised women to live well for themselves and show their men that they are more useful other than having just babies.<\/p>\n<p>Charlotte made this disclosure in an interview on Okay FM.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p>\u201cMost women don\u2019t want to make themselves useful. Even the sea, water falls into it so if you\u2019re with a man and he is accomplished, when you become a part of him, you should up to what he has.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t need to drain him. What are you adding? When he\u2019s with you and he realizes that the life he\u2019s living with you, you don\u2019t add anything to him, he will get fed up with you because he\u2019s always bringing and you are not adding up to support him grow.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why there are women who complain about being broken-hearted. Sometimes it\u2019s not because the man doesn\u2019t like you but rather, it\u2019s because he has seen you as a burden on him. He will know that when he gives birth with you and he\u2019s no more active, you can\u2019t take care of the children.<\/p>\n<p>When these young ladies are getting married they say they want bankers, they want Doctors and I ask what they are. It\u2019s the man who is a Banker and a Doctor, who are you? What\u2019s your identity as a woman?<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Watch video below;<\/p>\n<div class=\"fb-post\" data-href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/Okay101.7FM\/videos\/723338792117308\/?t=76\" data-width=\"500\" data-show-text=\"true\">\n<blockquote cite=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/Okay101.7FM\/videos\/723338792117308\/\" class=\"fb-xfbml-parse-ignore\">\n<p>Define yourself, add up to a man\u2019s hustle, don\u2019t be a burden @therealwomaninme_ advices ladies live on #Ekwansodwoodwoo<\/p>\n<p>Posted by Okay 101.7 FM on\u00a0Wednesday, 1 June 2022<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n<p><strong>Source; www.ghgossip.com<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><script async defer crossorigin=\"anonymous\" src=\"https:\/\/connect.facebook.net\/en_US\/sdk.js#xfbml=1&#038;version=v13.0&#038;appId=1009694476028322&#038;autoLogAppEvents=1\" type=\"02f4fecd9885245cf9d1a482-text\/javascript\"><\/script><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Marriage expert and relationship counsellor Charlotte Oduro has posed a big questions to women who intend to go into marriages. She asked posed questions like, \u2018what are you adding\u2019, what\u2019s your identity as a woman and many more while talking about how women don\u2019t have anything to support their husbands with except for making babies. 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