{"id":1108572,"date":"2022-06-03T00:15:41","date_gmt":"2022-06-03T00:15:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/06\/03\/top-reasons-people-stay-in-relationship-they-kow-are-not-working-opinion\/"},"modified":"2022-06-03T00:15:41","modified_gmt":"2022-06-03T00:15:41","slug":"top-reasons-people-stay-in-relationship-they-kow-are-not-working-opinion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/06\/03\/top-reasons-people-stay-in-relationship-they-kow-are-not-working-opinion\/","title":{"rendered":"Top Reasons People Stay In Relationship They Kow Are Not Working (Opinion)"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Relationships are not like rocks, inert, static, still. They are like water, in a state of perpetual motion, not necessarily in a stage of tumult but certainly in constant flux.<\/p>\n

I can be fulfilled then not, close to you then not, feel like it\u2019s working then not, only to experience things getting increasingly better and deeper, or increasingly worse.<\/p>\n

There are points in the relationship where I can\u2019t really make a diagnosis. Is this a rough patch, or is this not working? If we get through this, will we get stronger, or is this just a sign that things are slowly falling apart?<\/p>\n

The members of that relationship are also like water, in their own inner state of perpetual motion and flux. Is what I am thinking and feeling happening in the relationship, or is it happening in me?<\/p>\n

People stay in relationships they know are not working for many reasons, but one of them is because \u201cwe are having a tough time now\u201d and \u201cthis is not working\u201d can look very similar.<\/p>\n

Because, \u201cthis relationship is oppressive\u201d and \u201cthe relationship is fine but I am restless\u201d can look very similar.<\/p>\n

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Relationships are not like rocks, inert, static, still. They are like water, in a state of perpetual motion, not necessarily in a stage of tumult but certainly in constant flux. I can be fulfilled then not, close to you then not, feel like it\u2019s working then not, only to experience things getting increasingly better and […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1108573,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[15998,3006,345,830,2407,1102,121,1225],"class_list":["post-1108572","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-top-stories","tag-kow","tag-opinion","tag-people","tag-reasons","tag-relationship","tag-stay","tag-top","tag-working"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1108572","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1108572"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1108572\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1108572"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1108572"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1108572"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}