{"id":1086051,"date":"2022-05-13T11:58:39","date_gmt":"2022-05-13T11:58:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/05\/13\/childhood-trauma-made-me-a-people-pleaser\/"},"modified":"2022-05-13T11:58:39","modified_gmt":"2022-05-13T11:58:39","slug":"childhood-trauma-made-me-a-people-pleaser","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/05\/13\/childhood-trauma-made-me-a-people-pleaser\/","title":{"rendered":"Childhood Trauma Made Me A People Pleaser"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div>\n<h2>Popular Nollywood actress and show host Nancy Isime has shared how her childhood trauma affected her adulthood.<\/h2>\n<p>Nancy Isime shared her childhood with Lilian Afegbai during a one-on-one chat where she talked about the trauma she went through as a child and how it affected her growing up.<\/p>\n<h4 id=\"h-read-also-a-crippled-man-just-walked-after-hearing-davido-s-stand-strong-fan-says\">READ ALSO: A Crippled Man Just Walked After Hearing Davido\u2019s \u201cStand Strong\u201d \u2013 Fan Says<\/h4>\n<p>Speaking about her childhood, Nancy stated that he never got any attention she required as a child. She stated that it affected her so much that growing up she wanted to do things to please people.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-rich is-provider-instagram wp-block-embed-instagram\"\/>\n<h4>READ ALSO: Nollywood actress Adunni Ade Loses Her Cool, Calls Out Colleagues For Body-Shaming Her<\/h4>\n<p>\u201c<em>I don\u2019t force myself on anybody. I used to be a people pleaser but that came from childhood trauma. It came from a childhood trauma where you\u2019ll be looking for attention as a child and you didn\u2019t get it. When you get older, you start waning people to like you. So even if it\u2019s breaking you, even if you know that this person doesn\u2019t like you and has said shit about you, you think maybe they can change their minds\u201d<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>Speaking about how she overcame it, Nancy said she developed self-love and stopped pleasing people.<\/p>\n<p>But learning to love me and being intuitive helped me to heal from being a people pleaser.\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><script async defer crossorigin=\"anonymous\" src=\"https:\/\/connect.facebook.net\/en_US\/sdk.js#xfbml=1&#038;version=v13.0&#038;appId=1009694476028322&#038;autoLogAppEvents=1\" type=\"3a8a7b7111d6db34e05cb928-text\/javascript\"><\/script><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Popular Nollywood actress and show host Nancy Isime has shared how her childhood trauma affected her adulthood. Nancy Isime shared her childhood with Lilian Afegbai during a one-on-one chat where she talked about the trauma she went through as a child and how it affected her growing up. READ ALSO: A Crippled Man Just Walked [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1086053,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[2343,345,13373,3117],"class_list":["post-1086051","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-entertainment","tag-childhood","tag-people","tag-pleaser","tag-trauma"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1086051","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1086051"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1086051\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1086051"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1086051"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1086051"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}