{"id":1062704,"date":"2022-04-21T09:15:13","date_gmt":"2022-04-21T09:15:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/04\/21\/my-ex-husband-kaninja-slept-with-me-less-than-20-times-throughout-the-marriage-xandy-kamel\/"},"modified":"2022-04-21T09:15:13","modified_gmt":"2022-04-21T09:15:13","slug":"my-ex-husband-kaninja-slept-with-me-less-than-20-times-throughout-the-marriage-xandy-kamel","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/04\/21\/my-ex-husband-kaninja-slept-with-me-less-than-20-times-throughout-the-marriage-xandy-kamel\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;My ex-husband Kaninja slept with me less than 20 times throughout the marriage&#8221; \u2013 Xandy Kamel \u00bb \u2122"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div data-td-block-uid=\"tdi_33\">\n<div class=\"tdb-block-inner td-fix-index\">\n<p><span class=\"td-adspot-title\">&#8211;  &#8211;<\/span><br \/>\n<!-- ResponsiveAll --><\/p>\n<h2><strong>Xandy Karmel, a popular Ghanaian actress and socialite, has painfully recalled being sex-starved despite sharing a home with her husband.<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Xandy said she was repeatedly turned down when she boldly requested sex or made the first move.<\/p>\n<p>Xandy Kamel and her estranged husband Kaninja had a rocky marriage with accusations of infidelity from the man.<\/p>\n<p>Xandy revealed she was married to a man who was emotionally unavailable and they lived as strangers.<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"td-adspot-title\">&#8211;  &#8211;<\/span><br \/>\n<!-- ResponsiveAll --><\/p>\n<p>Not only that, but she also revealed that sex became a strange word in their marriage.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHaving sex is a struggle for us. I can\u2019t get it even if I ask. I can count how many times my husband and I had sex together. We were married but I was sex-deprived.\u201d She told Kwaku Manu.<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"td-adspot-title\">&#8211;  &#8211;<\/span><br \/>\n<!-- ResponsiveAll --><\/p>\n<p>\u201cIs it up to 20? Kwaku Manu asked.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI\u2019d be glad if it was,\u201d Xandy responded.<\/p>\n<p>Xandy Kamel was asked what kept her going despite all the challenges in her marriage.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI ignored the warning signs. Things would get better, but they never did. My parents kept encouraging me, so I stayed blindly in that toxic marriage.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Xandy claims her previous marriage taught her valuable lessons that have shaped her into a better person.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI\u2019ve learnt a lot of things including how to take care of myself. I\u2019ve also grown in self-acceptance. First, I\u2019ve learned not to ignore warning signs.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"td-adspot-title\">&#8211;  &#8211;<\/span><br \/>\n<!-- ResponsiveAll --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8211; &#8211; Xandy Karmel, a popular Ghanaian actress and socialite, has painfully recalled being sex-starved despite sharing a home with her husband. Xandy said she was repeatedly turned down when she boldly requested sex or made the first move. Xandy Kamel and her estranged husband Kaninja had a rocky marriage with accusations of infidelity from [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1061644,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[2944,7965,7966,628,8236,107,7967],"class_list":["post-1062704","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-entertainment","tag-exhusband","tag-kamel","tag-kaninja","tag-marriage","tag-slept","tag-times","tag-xandy"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1062704","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1062704"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1062704\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1062704"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1062704"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1062704"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}