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Is there anything as iconic, but also as problematic as the drink-throwing on The Real Housewives<\/em>? It\u2019s where stars are made (and dimmed) and things are just never the same afterwards.<\/p>\n Many fans of the shows have said it\u2019s a way to get attention, show your contempt for your fellow cast members and also try to secure your contract for the next season.<\/p>\n We have seen this happen in many a Real Housewives<\/em> city- be it Atlanta or Beverly Hills, or New York, New Jersey and Orange County \u2013 the art of drink-throwing has been perfected. Johannesburg did in the second season and now Durban has also joined the fray in the Real Housewives Drink Throwing Brigade.<\/em><\/p>\n This week\u2019s episode of The Real Housewives of Durban <\/em> saw Jojo Robinson throw a glass of water at Mabusi Seme during a heated confrontation during their vacation in Sun City.<\/p>\n Jojo and Mabusi haven\u2019t gotten along since they met. They have traded barbs and insulted each other by asking questions that aim to embarrass each other (like when Jojo asked Mabusi how she can afford designer bags, in response to Mabusi asking her about why she is married to the much older Calvin).<\/p>\n So when the cast trip to Sun City happened, they were already on opposite ends of the spectrum, with neither of them liking each other.<\/p>\n View this post on Instagram<\/p>\n<\/div>\n A post shared by Mabusi Seme\ud83c\uddff\ud83c\udde6 (@mabusilicious)<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n So when Mabusi decided to bring back the game they played in Nambithi, where the women had asked each other deeply personal and insulting questions, everyone was on edge. This time it was Mabusi wanting to be transparent and telling the women who had asked the questions.<\/p>\n It went downhill when Jojo snapped at Mabusi for asking if she would have married someone of another race. It began a volley of words and insults, which escalated when Mabusi told Jojo to stop being a spoilt brat, and Jojo retaliated by telling her to shut up before throwing a glass of water in Mabusi\u2019s lap. Mabusi tries to reach for a glass and falls on her knees. Mabusi saw red. \u201cYou can\u2019t just come (to) throw water over me and think I will let you get away with it,\u201d Mabusi says later in her testimonial. \u201cNo, I am not about that life. I am from Lamontville. I fought my battles. I know how to fight.<\/p>\n \u201cI can hit you. But I know I can\u2019t because I\u2019m going to get arrested. But I don\u2019t talk, I hit.\u201d<\/p>\n View this post on Instagram<\/p>\n<\/div>\n A post shared by JoJo Robinson (@mrs.jojo.robinson)<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n It\u2019s a statement that sent chills down many viewers\u2019 spines. Because that\u2019s when you realise just how real these shows are, scripted they may be sometimes. The reactions are almost always real. And that if Mabusi had indeed hit Jojo, it would have been a different story altogether. So she had to take the humiliation and walk away to protect herself.<\/p>\n And then it happened \u2013 Jojo starts crying when the other women chide her for being rude to Mabusi. The episode ends with the other cast members irritated that Jojo wouldn\u2019t take accountability for her role in a fight that nearly got ugly.<\/p>\n Entertainment caught up with Mabusi to talk about what happened, how she found the second season of the show, especially after being a fan favourite in the first season and whether she will return for a third season.<\/p>\n How have the dynamics between you and the cast members changed compared to last season?<\/strong><\/p>\n We all have grown into our own and have also matured not only as wives but as mothers too. Yes, there are times when it\u2019s not easy not having a spouse like the other ladies, but I don\u2019t allow that to work against me or get to me. Unfortunately, my partner is not in the country, making it difficult to be \u201caccepted\u201d by the women.<\/p>\n Has it been easier working on this season compared to the first season?<\/strong><\/p>\n The only difference with this season is that I didn\u2019t engage with the rest of the cast at the beginning as much as I would have loved to. But as the season progressed I managed to engage with the rest of the cast and meet the new ladies. Other than that, I am enjoying this season as I am having better relations with the ladies (compared to last season) and I am finally finding myself and fitting in with the cast.<\/p>\n You and JoJo Robinson have not had the easiest relationship on the show. Was it a personality clash or as we say in Zulu \u2013 uyaclassana<\/em>?<\/strong><\/p>\n It definitely was not a personality issue. Yes, we didn\u2019t see eye to eye with JoJo. Maybe we can say uyaclassana<\/em>, uyajwayela<\/em> (she\u2019s classist and rude). I guess once she saw that ngiyayishaya intomba<\/em>zane (I will beat a girl up) she did a 180. I feel my laid-back relaxed and all-smiles attitude, made a number of the ladies take advantage of me. I sadly acted out of character when I reacted to JoJo\u2019s way of handling matters, am not proud of.<\/p>\n I know we only see a few moments of weeks of shooting \u2013 but what do you think lead to your fallout with her?<\/strong><\/p>\n Who knows, I don\u2019t want to answer on behalf of someone or assume what drove them to their actions. I can only answer for my reaction (to her actions). Maybe she misinterpreted me or my motives? I was honestly just trying to get to know the lass.<\/p>\n Where do you stand now?<\/strong><\/p>\n I was never against JoJo. I was always trying to forge a healthy relationship with Jojo. The same way I did with Londie London and the same way I tried with Thobile Mseleku. Sadly at the time, JoJo allowed things to happen the way they did. What I am happier with is, that she realised her actions and I too realised I shouldn\u2019t have reacted the way I did. We are now in such a happy healthy place, we have ironed out all the silliness. I only pray we keep our relationship in that happy peaceful place and she too has told me she wants the same.<\/p>\n Ahead of the reunion, what are some of the things you hope to address?<\/strong><\/p>\n When will I be a fully-fledged cast member, so that the ladies can see me as one of the group?<\/p>\n What prevented you from becoming a lead cast member, especially after a successful first season?<\/strong><\/p>\n I have no idea because I feel like I am one of the ladies and the show has been constantly trending week in and week out, especially when I have been on the screen. I am hoping the relevant decision-makers will eventually be on the same level as their viewers and see I contribute just as much (if not more) than the rest of the cast.<\/p>\n Have you contributed enough to the show this season to make a comeback in the third season?<\/strong><\/p>\n Most definitely! I give the viewters what they want and love. I am authentic and extremely relatable. I have a good young female following and I don\u2019t think it would be fair to deprive them of me. Even their mothers approve of me and they too love me, so I am a good role model. Now, who wouldn\u2019t want me on their channel?<\/p>\n The Real Housewives of Durban streams on Showmax with new episodes dropping on Fridays at 5am.. . <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n
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