{"id":1031653,"date":"2022-03-23T11:01:28","date_gmt":"2022-03-23T11:01:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/03\/23\/im-having-the-most-mind-blowing-sex-with-my-boyfriend-since-we-split-up\/"},"modified":"2022-03-23T11:01:28","modified_gmt":"2022-03-23T11:01:28","slug":"im-having-the-most-mind-blowing-sex-with-my-boyfriend-since-we-split-up","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/03\/23\/im-having-the-most-mind-blowing-sex-with-my-boyfriend-since-we-split-up\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8216;I&#8217;m having the most mind-blowing sex with my boyfriend&#8230; since we split up&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div>\n<div class=\"td-post-featured-image\">\n<figure><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"696\" height=\"378\" class=\"entry-thumb\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/1636912909_414_E8f4Wm5WYAE76nl-Copy-696x378.jpg\"   alt=\"sex\" title=\"sex\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\">sex<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p>Dear Coleen,\u00a0my\u00a0boyfriend\u00a0and I split up a couple of months ago \u2013 but with the view that we both needed a break and that the option was on the table of possibly getting back together.<\/p>\n<p>He moved out, but we\u2019ve been meeting up once a week and having the most mind-blowing\u00a0sex.<\/p>\n<p>Is this normal?<\/p>\n<p>Before he moved out, we were sick of each other and\u00a0bored\u00a0with the relationship.<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/22191989129,1002554\/MGL\/mgl_ado_atunwa_300x250 --><\/p>\n<p>But \u201cbreaking up\u201d has been the best thing ever for us.26528388&amp;cre=top&amp;cip=7&amp;view=web<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m confused about what this all means and really need some advice on what to do.<\/p>\n<p>How can we look at a long-term future if we can only stay together by living apart?<\/p>\n<h2>Coleen says<\/h2>\n<p>It sounds to me as if the passion and romance had disappeared from your relationship and being apart (and, in effect, dating again), has reignited those feelings in you.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes taking a break does work to help you remember why you love each other and why you got together in the first place \u2013 I just wonder if you\u2019ve had enough of a break from each other.<\/p>\n<p>I think what you need to look at if you want to commit to a future together, is how you bring that excitement into your relationship once you\u2019re officially back together and living under the same roof again.<\/p>\n<p>What can you learn from this time \u201capart\u201d? When you\u2019ve been together a while, romance takes some effort.<\/p>\n<p>You also have to think about what will hold you together if you have kids in the future.<\/p>\n<p>One of you can\u2019t keep moving out when the going gets tough because you have to be there to support each other.<\/p>\n<p>            <!--  [embed]https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=videoseries[\/embed]<!--\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>--><\/p>\n<div class=\"youtube-embed\" data-video_id=\"wiGxNA5LtyU\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"One-on-One With Kwabena Natus - Badwam Ahosepe on Adom TV (23-3-22)\" width=\"696\" height=\"392\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/wiGxNA5LtyU?feature=oembed&#038;enablejsapi=1\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>sex Dear Coleen,\u00a0my\u00a0boyfriend\u00a0and I split up a couple of months ago \u2013 but with the view that we both needed a break and that the option was on the table of possibly getting back together. He moved out, but we\u2019ve been meeting up once a week and having the most mind-blowing\u00a0sex. Is this normal? 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