{"id":1029375,"date":"2022-03-21T13:58:30","date_gmt":"2022-03-21T13:58:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/03\/21\/i-feel-guilty-for-cheating-on-my-partner-but-the-s3x-was-so-much-better\/"},"modified":"2022-03-21T13:58:30","modified_gmt":"2022-03-21T13:58:30","slug":"i-feel-guilty-for-cheating-on-my-partner-but-the-s3x-was-so-much-better","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/03\/21\/i-feel-guilty-for-cheating-on-my-partner-but-the-s3x-was-so-much-better\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8216;I feel guilty for cheating on my partner, but the s3x was so much better"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div>\n<div class=\"td-post-featured-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"696\" height=\"489\" class=\"entry-thumb\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/cheating_1493x1050-696x489.jpeg\"   alt=\"\" title=\"cheating_1493x1050\"\/><\/div>\n<p><strong>Dear Coleen<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>My ex-husband and I have been divorced for five years and I\u2019m currently living with my partner.<\/p>\n<p>My ex is still single, although I know he has no problem finding dates and has had a couple of short-term relationships.<\/p>\n<p>My dilemma is, I bumped into him a couple of weeks ago and we arranged to go for a drink to catch up, and then ended up in bed together.<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/22191989129,1002554\/MGL\/mgl_ado_atunwa_300x250 --><\/p>\n<p>One of the reasons we broke up was because our sex life was non-existent, but when we slept together recently, it was exciting and passionate, and very satisfying for a change.<\/p>\n<p>This has really messed my head up.<\/p>\n<p>I feel guilty for cheating on my partner, but the sex with my ex was so much better than it is with him.<\/p>\n<p>Please help!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Coleen says<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Hmm, this is sex for old time\u2019s sake, bringing up memories of when things were good.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s familiar but forbidden, so it\u2019s exciting. But that\u2019s all it is.<\/p>\n<p>If you love your partner, work on that relationship and get the spark back.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let your sex life fall by the wayside, so you end up in the same position you were in with your ex-husband.<\/p>\n<p>Putting what you\u2019ve done aside for a moment, think back to why you got divorced and all the other rubbish things that happened.<\/p>\n<p>Chances are, they would all happen again once you got used to each other and the initial excitement wore off.<\/p>\n<p>If sex isn\u2019t great with your partner, sort it out. <\/p>\n<p>Think about what would have to change to make it exciting again.<\/p>\n<p>As for feeling guilty, of course, you will, you\u2019ve cheated!<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s no magic fix for it I\u2019m afraid.<\/p>\n<p>I cheated once many years ago, couldn\u2019t bear the guilt, saw how much hurt it caused and vowed I\u2019d never do it again.<\/p>\n<p>Confront issues in your relationship before you get to the point of sleeping with someone else.<\/p>\n<p>            <!--  [embed]https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=videoseries[\/embed]<!--\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>--><\/p>\n<div class=\"youtube-embed\" data-video_id=\"iMA4fVt_vO4\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"My Fiance&#039;s Snake Pet Scares Me - Lady - Awaresem on Adom TV (19-3-22)\" width=\"696\" height=\"392\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/iMA4fVt_vO4?feature=oembed&#038;enablejsapi=1\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dear Coleen My ex-husband and I have been divorced for five years and I\u2019m currently living with my partner. My ex is still single, although I know he has no problem finding dates and has had a couple of short-term relationships. My dilemma is, I bumped into him a couple of weeks ago and we [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":726069,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[549],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1029375","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-lifestyle"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1029375","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1029375"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1029375\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1029375"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1029375"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1029375"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}