{"id":1023464,"date":"2022-03-16T16:13:53","date_gmt":"2022-03-16T16:13:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/03\/16\/id-love-to-have-sex-with-young-guy-but-i-dont-want-either-of-us-to-get-hurt\/"},"modified":"2022-03-16T16:13:53","modified_gmt":"2022-03-16T16:13:53","slug":"id-love-to-have-sex-with-young-guy-but-i-dont-want-either-of-us-to-get-hurt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/03\/16\/id-love-to-have-sex-with-young-guy-but-i-dont-want-either-of-us-to-get-hurt\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8216;I&#8217;d love to have sex with young guy but I don&#8217;t want either of us to get hurt&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div>\n<div class=\"td-post-featured-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"626\" height=\"626\" class=\"entry-thumb\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/Lovers.jpg\"   alt=\"My insatiable desire for sex cost Maggie her degree\" title=\"Couple\"\/><\/div>\n<p><strong>Dear Coleen<\/strong>,<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m a woman in my forties and got\u00a0divorced\u00a0a few years ago. I don\u2019t have kids and I\u2019m not in a serious relationship at the moment.<\/p>\n<p>I work with a guy I find very sexy and it\u2019s clear he\u2019s interested in me, too, but he\u2019s only 28.<\/p>\n<p>I think about him a lot and what it would be like to sleep with him, but I don\u2019t want either of us to get hurt. If I could have fun without any risks, I wouldn\u2019t think twice.<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/22191989129,1002554\/MGL\/mgl_ado_atunwa_300x250 --><\/p>\n<p>But there\u2019s part of me that worries it\u2019s a waste of time and I should only be considering older men, so there\u2019s a chance of a proper relationship.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019d love to hear your thoughts.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Coleen says<\/strong>,<\/p>\n<p>Even if you started dating an older guy, there are no guarantees the relationship will last. No one has a crystal ball at the start of any relationship.<\/p>\n<p>I think you need to work out what you want \u2013 if right now it\u2019s fun and no strings, then fill your boots. Why not?<\/p>\n<p>Just bear in mind that if you fall out, it might make things tricky at work.<\/p>\n<p>Personally, getting involved with a younger guy isn\u2019t for me \u2013 I\u2019ve no desire to go to bars or clubs or hike up mountains (and whatever else young guys do these days).<\/p>\n<p>Yes, it\u2019s a huge ego boost if someone younger finds you attractive and pays you attention, but that\u2019s enough for me.<\/p>\n<p>If you do get involved with this guy, just have realistic expectations and be honest at the start about what each of you wants from a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>            <!--  [embed]https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=videoseries[\/embed]<!--\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>--><\/p>\n<div class=\"youtube-embed\" data-video_id=\"-pa4fetKxSc\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Adom Trotro: Respect The Red Light Campaign #RedAsoMassaGyina - Premtobre Kasee on Adom TV (16-3-22)\" width=\"696\" height=\"392\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/-pa4fetKxSc?feature=oembed&#038;enablejsapi=1\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dear Coleen, I\u2019m a woman in my forties and got\u00a0divorced\u00a0a few years ago. I don\u2019t have kids and I\u2019m not in a serious relationship at the moment. I work with a guy I find very sexy and it\u2019s clear he\u2019s interested in me, too, but he\u2019s only 28. I think about him a lot and [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":190886,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[549],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1023464","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-lifestyle"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1023464","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1023464"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1023464\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1023464"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1023464"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1023464"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}