{"id":1021281,"date":"2022-03-14T11:14:53","date_gmt":"2022-03-14T11:14:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/03\/14\/im-angry-as-my-ex-husband-made-our-children-meet-his-other-woman\/"},"modified":"2022-03-14T11:14:53","modified_gmt":"2022-03-14T11:14:53","slug":"im-angry-as-my-ex-husband-made-our-children-meet-his-other-woman","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/03\/14\/im-angry-as-my-ex-husband-made-our-children-meet-his-other-woman\/","title":{"rendered":"I&#8217;m angry as my ex-husband made our children meet his other woman"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div>\n<div class=\"td-post-featured-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"696\" height=\"464\" class=\"entry-thumb\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/EVuMLaWXkAUMnvI-Copy-696x464.jpg\"   alt=\"couple\" title=\"couple\"\/><\/div>\n<p>I split up with my husband last year because of his serial philandering.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s had several\u00a0affairs, but the latest one was the nail in the coffin and I finally found the courage to walk away. <\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s still with this woman and has moved into her place.<\/p>\n<p> I couldn\u2019t care less, to be honest, but we have three children, so I have to maintain a civil relationship with him for their sake.<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/22191989129,1002554\/MGL\/mgl_ado_atunwa_300x250 --><\/p>\n<p>We agreed that the kids shouldn\u2019t meet her until they\u2019d got used to the idea of us separating, but then I found out that he\u2019d introduced them to her without telling me first.<\/p>\n<p>My daughter let the cat out of the bag, obviously, and he must have known this would happen, which means he doesn\u2019t care what I think. <\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m so angry with him and feel we should discuss everything that concerns the\u00a0children. Surely I\u2019m right about this?<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/7_Coleen-Nolan-cropped-for-columnPNG.png\" alt=\"Coleen Nolan is the Mirror's resident agony aunt\"\/><figcaption>Coleen Nolan is the Mirror\u2019s resident agony aunt<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><strong>Coleen says<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Yes, I think he should have told you because you\u2019d discussed it beforehand and he knew what your take on it was. <\/p>\n<p>However, if the kids are OK with it, then for your own sake, as well as theirs, move on from it without creating an issue.<\/p>\n<p>You have every right to say to your ex that he shouldn\u2019t have gone behind your back. But it sounds as if he\u2019s serious about this woman as they\u2019re living together, meaning the relationship isn\u2019t going away. So it\u2019s not realistic for her to leave the house every time the kids come over.<\/p>\n<p>You say you\u2019re not bothered, but you are. Maybe it\u2019s because he\u2019s taken this out of your control and it might have been the one area, throughout the affairs and the separation, that you felt you had some control over.<\/p>\n<p>It might be a question of having another discussion to reestablish how things are going to work with the children moving forward.<\/p>\n<p>            <!--  [embed]https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=videoseries[\/embed]<!--\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>--><\/p>\n<div class=\"youtube-embed\" data-video_id=\"eM-dMuQu_hU\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Thanksgiving service held in honour of Late Elvis Koku Kwashie - Badwam News on Adom TV (14-3-22)\" width=\"696\" height=\"392\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/eM-dMuQu_hU?feature=oembed&#038;enablejsapi=1\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I split up with my husband last year because of his serial philandering. He\u2019s had several\u00a0affairs, but the latest one was the nail in the coffin and I finally found the courage to walk away. He\u2019s still with this woman and has moved into her place. 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