{"id":1011986,"date":"2022-03-05T22:56:54","date_gmt":"2022-03-05T22:56:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/03\/05\/im-madly-in-love-with-a-certain-lady-but-she-has-a-male-bestie-worried-man\/"},"modified":"2022-03-05T22:56:54","modified_gmt":"2022-03-05T22:56:54","slug":"im-madly-in-love-with-a-certain-lady-but-she-has-a-male-bestie-worried-man","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/03\/05\/im-madly-in-love-with-a-certain-lady-but-she-has-a-male-bestie-worried-man\/","title":{"rendered":"I\u2019m madly in love with a certain lady but she has a male bestie \u2013 Worried man"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div>\n<div class=\"td-post-featured-image\">\n<figure><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"696\" height=\"464\" class=\"entry-thumb\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/1430856710_1603311700-Copy-696x464.jpg\"   alt=\"cry\" title=\"cry\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\">File photo<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p>An ardent listener of\u00a0<strong>Joy FM\u00a0<\/strong>has expressed frustrations over the attachment of his lover to her male best friends.<\/p>\n<p>According to Agyeman Joseph, this attitude makes him suspect that his lover could be cheating on him.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI\u2019m in a relationship with this lady whom I\u2019m madly in love with. We live in the same house but guys keep coming around to take her out.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Worried about the situation, Agyeman said he discussed the matter with the lady but she insisted they are only friends.<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/22191989129,1002554\/MGL\/mgl_ado_atunwa_300x250 --><\/p>\n<p>\u201cShe said all her friends are males, because she used to work at a drinking spot and I have been making friends who are males.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She also said her association with a lot of males is because she currently works at the washing bay and often it is only men who patronise their services, so she doesn\u2019t have lady friends.<\/p>\n<p>In spite of this explanation, Agyeman Joseph is not satisfied as he suspects there is more to the lady\u2019s association with other guys than what he has been told.<\/p>\n<p>He made this known during conversations on Friday\u2019s edition of the\u00a0<strong>Super Morning Show<\/strong>\u00a0with regard to what people think about keeping best friends of the opposite sex even after marriage.<\/p>\n<p>A lot of people called in to express divergent views.<\/p>\n<p>While some held the view that there is nothing wrong with that, others thought that it can pose a threat to the marriage or relationship.<\/p>\n<p>The first caller, Naa, said, \u201csometimes you\u2019ll have a cause to worry, but speaking from experience, there is nothing to worry about.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The second caller, Kofi Arhin said, he doesn\u2019t see anything wrong with his partner keeping someone of the opposite sex as a \u2018bestie\u2019. However, the problem is how people maintain that kind of friendship.<\/p>\n<p>Charles said, \u201cit\u2019s just like having a relationship with God \u2013 He said \u2018I\u2019m a jealous God.\u2019 When you\u2019re not married, it\u2019s okay to have your best friend being the opposite sex, but immediately you get married, you must understand that your partner is your only best friend.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou can still have someone of the opposite sex as your friend, but it shouldn\u2019t exceed what you have with your spouse,\u201d another caller said.<\/p>\n<p>            <!--  [embed]https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=videoseries[\/embed]<!--\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>--><\/p>\n<div class=\"youtube-embed\" data-video_id=\"bPVj1iw3GOA\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Road Tolls Cessation: Gov&#039;t did not lose any revenue \u2013 Roads and Highway Minister \u2013 Adom TV (4-3-22)\" width=\"696\" height=\"392\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/bPVj1iw3GOA?feature=oembed&#038;enablejsapi=1\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>File photo An ardent listener of\u00a0Joy FM\u00a0has expressed frustrations over the attachment of his lover to her male best friends. According to Agyeman Joseph, this attitude makes him suspect that his lover could be cheating on him. \u201cI\u2019m in a relationship with this lady whom I\u2019m madly in love with. 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