{"id":1006950,"date":"2022-03-01T10:56:56","date_gmt":"2022-03-01T10:56:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/03\/01\/ladies-this-is-why-he-isnt-making-the-first-move-and-heres-what-you-can-do-about-it\/"},"modified":"2022-03-01T10:56:56","modified_gmt":"2022-03-01T10:56:56","slug":"ladies-this-is-why-he-isnt-making-the-first-move-and-heres-what-you-can-do-about-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/03\/01\/ladies-this-is-why-he-isnt-making-the-first-move-and-heres-what-you-can-do-about-it\/","title":{"rendered":"Ladies, this is why he isn\u2019t making the first move and here\u2019s what you can do about it"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div>\n<div class=\"td-post-featured-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"696\" height=\"464\" class=\"entry-thumb\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/EVuMLaWXkAUMnvI-Copy-696x464.jpg\"   alt=\"couple\" title=\"couple\"\/><\/div>\n<p>You know he likes you, but you wonder why he isn\u2019t asking for a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>The conversation is great between the two of you, he loves spending time with you, but he isn\u2019t asking you to be his girlfriend, why is that?<\/p>\n<p id=\"nav-ring-2\"><strong>He lacks confidence<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Men fear rejection as much as the next person. If he is shy and unsure of a good response, there is a chance that he will take his time and continue to pursue a friendship with you until he feels confident enough.<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/22191989129,1002554\/MGL\/mgl_ado_atunwa_300x250 --><\/p>\n<p id=\"nav-ring-4\"><strong>He thinks you are t<\/strong>aken<\/p>\n<p>Maybe he feels you\u2019re too beautiful not to be swept off your feet already. He might feel like there are other men in your life, and he doesn\u2019t stand a chance.<\/p>\n<p id=\"nav-ring-6\"><strong>He assumes you won\u2019t be interested because you are out of his league<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>He feels you won\u2019t be interested because you are out of his league. So, he keeps himself in the friend zone.<\/p>\n<p id=\"nav-ring-8\"><strong>He doesn\u2019t want to date you<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>He might like you but feel there is no future for the both of you so he hangs around you, enjoys your company and if sex and intimacy are on the table, he collects that.<\/p>\n<p id=\"nav-ring-10\"><strong>What should you do?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p id=\"nav-ring-11\">Give him the green light.<\/p>\n<p>You can let him know you like him plainly or coyly. Position yourself in such a way that he knows that you are available. Let him know that you are single and searching. Pay him compliments. Buy him gifts.<\/p>\n<p id=\"nav-ring-13\"><strong>Ask him if he wants to date you<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The truth will set you free so ask him if he likes you and wants to be with you so you can be sure he isn\u2019t stringing you along and wasting your time.<\/p>\n<p>            <!--  [embed]https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=videoseries[\/embed]<!--\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>--><\/p>\n<div class=\"youtube-embed\" data-video_id=\"lfNpCl__URY\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"He slept with me twice \u2013 Young Lady Cries. 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