Some women opt to date around before they settle down, but once they do, they start looking for different things in a man. They will still be attracted to the same things like looks, personality and other traits, but they won’t settle for good reviews on those alone. They will look deeper and further into a man’s whole repertoire. Is he a good person? Will he make a good husband? They won’t ask this outright, but they do have ways to find out. Here is how women determine if the guy they’re seeing is a prime candidate for forever.
No to violence and abuse. You can’t really say whether a person is capable of hurting another person, until it happens. Still, there are signs that can alert us to your true colors when necessary. It could be the way you talk to other people or the way you treat us when we’re having an argument. The point is that women will never settle for a man who thinks it’s okay to inflict pain on a woman, physically or otherwise.
Must have a goal. women might enjoy the initial phases of the relationship like the lovey-dovey moments and the whispering of sweet nothings, but that will never hold up in a full-on adult relationship. At some point, women need to talk about plans and goals for the future. If a man has none, most women won’t stay long enough for him to realize that he needs to get his act together.
Communication must be consistent. Women love to talk. Women can’t just have one awesome conversation, and then settle for scraps after. In order for a relationship to succeed, both people must be capable of sharing, communicating and connecting. Women want to know that you’re thinking about us from time to time. We want you to know we feel the same way. That won’t happen if guys don’t communicate with us on a regular basis.
Dress code implemented. Women don’t care much about clothing brands or the latest in men’s fashion, they are more concerned with our clothes. Still, women expect the man they are dating to be neat and proper whenever we’re outside. They should wear the appropriate attire for our dates and refrain from streaking in public.
Principles must be in line with each other’s. It is understandable that two people’s ideals can clash, especially when they did not grow up together. When those principles are questioned, you need to be prepared to open your mind. If you cannot agree with each other’s way of thinking, starting a relationship would be futile. The best case scenario is when you both respect each other’s way of thinking without wanting to change the other.
Willingness to commit will be assessed. This is the most important factor that women assess when they are looking for The One. Women can’t choose a person to spend the rest of their life with, if he doesn’t feel the same way. It’s easy to spot guys who are ready for a serious relationship. You don’t even have to ask them if they are willing to commit to you. They are the ones most likely to step up and tell you that you’re the only one that they want to be with.
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