7 Signs She’s Using You, Walking All Over You, and Playing You For Fun

Men tend to think that the more they invest in the girl, the more she’ll appreciate and love them. Sadly, even though you could be dropping big bucks on her, it doesn’t mean she feels the same. You need to learn the signs she’s using.

1. You feel incomplete.

When you’re around her, you feel like something is missing, almost as if you’re not complete. This is because she’s not reciprocating with her emotions. You want to please her and make her fall for you, but instead, the plan backfired. Now you’ve fallen into your own trap.

2. Rewards come when you do something for her.

She manipulates you into doing something that you may not feel comfortable doing in order for her to get the carrot in front of your face. The “carrot” could be sex, commitment, or even affection. Whatever it is that you need from her, she’s using it to get what she wants.

3. There’s no affection.

There’s been no physical contact or sweet words exchanged between you. It causes you to question, “Is she using me?” and it’s probably a sign that indeed she is. She displays signs of affection on bed, but not in public.

4. She’s available at certain times.

Have you noticed that she only hangs out with you before the evening or only after 10 p.m.? If it’s after 10 p.m., she may only see you as a booty call. Before the evening, she isn’t interested in spending her nights beside you. She’s simply putting you on shifts that suit her.

5. You’re a bad person when you say what you want.

You may be slowly catching on to the fact that you’re not getting what you want out of the relationship. You’re probably often wondering, “Is she using me?” or if she even cares. If your needs aren’t being met, then you may have approached her, telling her how it feels.

6. She’s a pretty complex person.

When you finally have enough to question her about her behavior and whether or not she wants to be with you, she’s sobbing in your arms. Keep an eye on this. Does she almost always break down, act vulnerable, and come crawling to you each time you stand up for yourself? It’s one of the signs she’s using you.

7. You often question yourself if she’s into you.

Have you ever wondered if your girlfriend likes you, or if she even likes you? If you feel like she’s using you for everything you have, then you’re probably right.

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