Lady Cries: “I Am 9 Years Older Than My Boyfriend”

One of the things we can’t take out of our lives is love. We all know that love comes with a lot of thrills and spills, so we try our best to stay away from it, but we all have to know that it’s uncertain. You will never know with whom and how you will fall in love with someone. 

Focusing on love, a lady had the courage to come over to Facebook to seek advice from the experienced ones over her unusual love story. 

“Good morning, family. Kindly help a sister. I want to ask this question: Is there something wrong for a young woman to fall in love with a young man with a gap of 9 years? My friends think it’s too broad and also that the society we live in won’t allow that. But, he is not worried about the age difference and he looks mature when walking together. 

Should I continue or step back? It’s been 4 months now. ” 

She literally wants to say that she’s way older than the guy she’s in love with, and some of her friends urge her to end the relationship because she’s way older and they’re scared it won’t last long, though it’s a four-month old relationship. 

Would you date someone who’s 9 years younger than you are? 

As always, netizens advised her and one even said the famously known actress and TV host, Nana Ama McBrown, is 10 years older than her husband, so it’s a matter of understanding between the couples. Someone also advised her, saying,

“There is nothing wrong with that. In fact, age doesn’t play much in relationships. What matters is the heart. Some men genuinely appreciate and love women a few years older than themselves due to those women’s experience of life. If I had a choice, I would go for a woman a few years older than me rather than a few years younger than me. And if you really love him, I would advise you to take good care of yourself and your appearance well. Men will always be men. Men can also genuinely love, but they are also moved by what they see, and age is women’s biggest enemy of beauty. So take good care of yourself, appearance and beauty wise. I believe he loves you, but you will also have to make some sacrifices to take good care of your appearance. It’s sad that I’m emphasizing the changes that come with age, but that’s the reality with men”. 

Once again, who would you date someone who’s 9 years younger than you are?

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