How do you know if a guy really cares about you or if he’s just playing the gentleman card? These clues will help you weed out the manipulators from the truly great guys out there instantly. Try these tips and you’ll be able to tell the difference between genuine and fake.
1. He listens and offers adviceÂ
The trick is to see if he gives you any advice. If he offers realistic solutions to your problems, then he really pays attention. But if not, he’ll act indifferent throughout the conversation or, worse, try to change the topic. This shows he cares about you.
2. He remembers seemingly insignificant details.
A guy may not tell you he likes you, but he’ll show you he cares with the most ordinary gestures. Maybe it’s making your coffee just the way you like it or opening doors for you. Actions will always speak volumes if you’re asking, “Does he care about me?”
3. He uses ‘we’Â
When a man uses the word “we” instead of “you and me,” or “I,” he shows how much he cares about you. This simple switch of word usage might feel ordinary to you, but it means he sees you as an individual rather than just another person.
4. He’s very understandingÂ
A guy who takes the time to listen to you is genuinely caring. He tries to see things from your point of view, even if he doesn’t understand what’s going on. Whether it’s about a misunderstanding or simply trying to understand your perspective, he sees where you’re coming from.
5. He plans things with you.
If he makes long-term plans with you, this is a big sign that he cares about you.Guys aren’t the biggest planners when it comes to people they don’t care about. So if he makes weekend plans or invites you to his sister’s wedding, you must mean a lot to him!
6. He sees you as an equalÂ
If your boyfriend cares about you, he’d value everything you say because he doesn’t think he’s above or superior to you. You’re a team, and that’s one of the powerful signs to answer the question – does he care about me?
7. He checks in regularlyÂ
It doesn’t matter what kind of relationship you’re in, a man will always find time to check in with you. Even if it’s just a quick text or phone call, he’ll be sure to let you know he’s thinking of you. That’s a guy who cares.
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