Are you worried about the suspicious behavior of your boyfriend or husband? Are you losing endless hours of sleep due to the sadness and uncertainty as to what is going on in your relationship? If so, then it’s super important you find out what is going on so that you can get your life back. In this particular article, we shall look at seven alarming signs which indicates that your boyfriend is cheating on you or is a cheat.
If he accuses you of cheating. Your man very well may be cheating on you if you find that he is reversing the accusations. Does he frequently seem suspicious or insecure about what you are up to, especially if you haven’t changed your behavior or what he should expect from you? This could be a sign of cheating because he is projecting onto you.
He has become very moody. Sudden irritability is never a pleasant thing to put up with, but it happens; some people just go through stressful times in their lives and take it out on the wrong people on a daily basis. He may have tighter deadlines at work or an overly critical boss; ideally, he’d want to talk about that with you, but he may just be relieved to be home. Work stress can be exhibited in many ways, but what if there’s more to it? If he is suddenly getting mad at you over the little things in life, like not replacing the toilet paper roll or forgetting to use a coaster, that could be a sign he is cheating. Often, the guilt of an affair causes an individual to be irritable with the person they are with.
He won’t introduce you to his friends. If you have been dating this guy for quite some time, like months, you have probably heard him talk about his best friends. You may be wondering why you haven’t been introduced to them yet a rightful concern. If he is serious about you and the relationship you’ve started, he would most likely introduce you to the people he values the most.
He spends more time with his friends. Of course, all men need to have “boys’ night out.” However, if they have recently become more frequent, it may mean he’s cheating on you. He may not really be out with his friends but instead is seeing another woman. That’s not okay; before accusing him of cheating, though, make sure the signs are there; he may actually be out with friends.
He is distracted by anything other than you. While you may have become comfortable in the relationship and just don’t feel the need to talk with each other a lot, if he can’t even carry on a conversation with you anymore, there may be someone besides you who has captured his attention. Does he seem more distracted by his phone or the television than he is with you?
He is disinterested in sex. According to Cosmo magazine, if you feel a shift in the romantic energy that you share with your partner or if they’ve turned off the faucet completely, it’s a possible sign that he is getting his sexual fulfillment somewhere else. After all, it’s pretty well known that men need a certain amount of sex in their lives to feel complete (so do women)! Ask yourself, “Why would his sex drive change suddenly?”
Your friends or family ask you what’s going on. You may be blissfully happy, ignorantly able to look past all the signs he’s cheating on you, but people who are outside of your relationship may see things that you don’t. Have they been asking if everything is okay regularly? You may want to ask them why they are asking; maybe they saw him with someone else in a public place. If your friends and family think something is going on, your partner might be cheating on you. Why else would they ask that? What is the motivation behind that question? Of course, it could be an innocent question; someone may just want to check in on your situation marriage or whatever. It’s still a good idea to find out why they are concerned.
He changes his views on your future together Be cautious if your man talks negatively about your relationship. He may throw out negative scenarios, saying things like, “What would you do if we were to break up?” He might be testing the waters to see what you would think if things changed in your relationship, as a way to make sure you’d be okay if he decided to end things. He may say things in an effort to see how you’d react if he decides to break up with you and get permanently hooked up with his side lover. Why else would he say that? If you find him saying odd things like this, you may just have a cheater on your hands. Guard your heart and feelings closely because he may hurt you.
He cares more about the way he looks. While many men (and women) change the way they look as they age and grow as individuals, a sudden change in wardrobe is a strange occurrence and may be a sign that you are being cheated on. Ask yourself, “Who is he trying to impress?” Why would he feel the need to get a “new look” if you are happy with his current one? This means if your spouse or boyfriend is suddenly buying new clothes or accessories or spending more time in front of the mirror, checking himself out, he may just be up to something dishonest.
He doesn’t seem to like stuff about you that he used to love. He used to love the way you chewed your cereal, your silly faces, and the clothes you wore. Now, he’s overly critical, not liking even the little things that he used to love. This is a sign he’s looking for a way out, but not always. He may have just changed his opinion about you, but do you actually want to be with a person that doesn’t value you?
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