1. Understand why she is upset.
Apologizing without meaning it or knowing why can make things worse than if you simply kept your mouth shut. If you rush into an apology, the woman will detect you’re not being honest. Before you apologize, it’s important you take a moment to stop and reflect. Why is she upset? Are the possibly other factors that are playing into her mood? How serious is the problem?
Put yourself in the woman’s shoes for a moment. While you should be considering the way she is feeling, you should also imagine the way your actions have been interpreted by her in turn. If your apology is because of a certain thing that happened, try playing it out in your head. From there, regardless of who is to blame, you should have a better grasp why she is upset.
2. Give yourself time to relax.
If you need to make an apology to a girl, then you are probably dealing with some pain as well. If you recognize that you’re not feeling good at the moment, you should see first things first and give yourself time to heal. Depending on how bad the situation is, this could mean minutes, hours or days.
Don’t let yourself put the apology off too long, however. Being silent long enough will be interpreted as a non-apology; that you aren’t sorry and don’t want to have anything to do with her. Again, interpretation of what is considered ‘too long’ will depend on the severity of the situation, and the strength of the relationship.
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