Sometimes you accept who you are now, than not becoming a better person in the future. You are afraid you wouldn’t be able to cope as you grow and realize your mistakes. That’s a big lie. For as long as you have breath, nothing is impossible. You can be a better person and even have a happier version of yourself. All you need to do is to believe and shut negativity out.
In here, I have some points on habits that can and will change your life.
1. Always have a planned out list:
You might think that it is not necessary but it is. You can write down the goals you want to accomplish in a new month, for the day or even the year. It makes you organized, focused and prepared for what you want to do. Surely, there would be unforeseen circumstances that may appear in your life, but this list can also back you up. Question yourself as you live; what do you want to accomplish in the years to come, how do you envision it and many others.
2. Say what you mean:
In this life, you shouldn’t find yourself pleasing others. If they cannot accept you the way you are, then they don’t need to have to be in your life. You must not under any circumstance change for someone and end up not knowing who you are anymore. Say ‘yes’ when you mean it and ‘no’ if you don’t.
3. Surround yourself with positive people:
You need no negativity in your life. People who bring you down, and use your weakness against you, are not worth your presence. Never think that people will not accept you the way you are. Even with your flaws, there are people out there who would help you get through it, without any judgment.
4. Make time for exercise:
Yes, this is also important. Despite your busy schedules, you can do it for just five minutes. Don’t sit for so long. Always find time to go for a walk and stretch yourself.
5. Listen more:
Some people talk but fail to listen. This is also very important. You can’t always expect people to listen to you when you don’t do the same for them. Sometimes the answer to your problems is, by listening to another when they speak. The more you listen the more you learn.
Hope you have heard the saying “your attitude determines your altitude”. Thank you for reading. Hope these helps.
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