1. Study her carefully, not THEM. Fix your attention on one woman, and study her like your project work. As you’re studying her, try matching her words with her actions. Some will match, many others will not match.
Those that match comes from her principles (things she believes in) of life.
Use this information to determine her likes and dislikes, what makes her laugh or cry. Keep studying her to confirm your findings. Study period: 2 weeks to 2 months, depending on how close you are to her.
2. Give a listening ear. If you want a woman to pour out her mind, let her know you’re ready to listen. Don’t try to judge her when she is speaking. She will stop. Use facial expressions and quick on-the-point remarks to shape the interaction.
3. Praise her when she says something intelligent. A lot of women have very good ideas, but they don’t have the confidence to bring them out. When the woman begins to receive praise for her petty ideas, she is encouraged to bring out more. But be honest in your praise. Applaud her only for truly worthwhile ideas.
4. Find an intelligent way to let her know you’re a good confidant.
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