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Emma Ugolee who happens to be a media personality has shared a personal story with the aim of passing the message across to his followers<\/p>\n
He revealed that he once loved a woman but the woman refused his proposal because she was afraid he would have died out of his kidney related ailment he was battling<\/p>\n
Emma currently reconnected with a mutual a friend of theirs who told him his crush had died after her intestines got twisted<\/p>\n
He shared a photo of a 94-yearl old Nigerian woman who is the oldest Nigerian living with the Sickle Cell Disorder and wrote<\/p>\n
\u201cCaught deep feelings for this girl in 2012. Could have sworn it was
\nmutual but she said we couldn\u2019t be. I got rid of every means of
\ncommunication just so i could heal.<\/p>\n
Ran into her good friend months later. She calls me \u201cmy inlaw\u201d as usual & I go \u201cgo joor. Inlaw wey una fashi\u201d .
She holds my hands, pulls me to the side & says with pain in her
\nvoice & sincerity in her eyes: \u201ci swear Emma she loved you. She told
\n me that much but she was scared of being in love with you today &
\nyou die tomorrow\u201d<\/p>\n
If i tell you that this news didn\u2019t break me, ill be lying. Meehn! It
\n cut deep. \u201cEmma na you be this? Kidney wahala\u201d All l could say. But
\nreally you can\u2019t judge her for her valid fears.<\/p>\n
Late 2018 this same friend was tagged on a post i made. We joyfully reconnected but no \u201cmy inlaw\u201d hailing.
My question \u201cHow is our wife?\u201d was met with silence. Then came the words \u201cI\u2019m sorry Emma she passed 5years ago\u201d<\/p>\n
First time ever i heard of a medical condition where intestines could get twisted. ? I felt pain. That was in October or so
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Thought about it today and was grateful to God for the undeserved kindness of still letting me breath 8yrs later & as that thought passed, came the one that motivated this message<\/p>\n
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Human analysis, expectations, predictions, patterns or norms, have no business with how tomorow would turn out for you. <\/p><\/div>\n
Whatever they say today about your chances of making it is so irrelevant.
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So i promised me to never make the mistake of being certain that anybody would end in a certain way. Seeing that I am not holier than any whose journeys have ended and thus wise enough to understand that logic does not explain the sustaining power of grace.
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The fact that a pattern surrounds you, does not mean your future has been moulded by it. Your confidence, your vision, aspiration & motivation must tower above your environment at all times as you declare with faith that \u201cyour case would be different.\u201d <\/p>\n![\"\"](\"https:\/\/ghanamma.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/emma-uggloe.jpg\")
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