{"id":712417,"date":"2019-09-28T17:30:33","date_gmt":"2019-09-28T17:30:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ghana-mma.com\/2019\/09\/28\/why-i-can-no-longer-get-married\/"},"modified":"2019-09-28T17:30:33","modified_gmt":"2019-09-28T17:30:33","slug":"why-i-can-no-longer-get-married","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2019\/09\/28\/why-i-can-no-longer-get-married\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8216;Why I Can No Longer Get Married&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div id=\"\">\n<figure id=\"attachment_710713\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-710713\" style=\"width: 772px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-710713 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/ghanamma.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/Capture-83.png\" alt=\"Nollywood actress Sylvia Ukaatu\" width=\"772\" height=\"427\"  \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-710713\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Nollywood actress Sylvia Ukaatu<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Nollywood actress Sylvia Ukaatu has revealed that she took a blood oath with a boyfriend at the age of 18.<\/p>\n<p>Speaking with pearls news, the actress said; \u201cIt all started when I was 18 years old. I fell in love, deeply in love. I was so carried away at that tender age. I was lured into a blood oath with my then lover. I never knew the repercussions behind such move. I was only young, na\u00efve and in love. We played along.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI was happy. I was planning to settle down. Until love became sour. I tried to walk away, I begged to be freed but the guy refused, so I kept to myself and started living life to the fullest. Even when he travelled out of the country, I encountered so many failed relationships without knowing what was behind it. Suitors were coming but on the day of the introduction, they would cancel.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI waited for many years for him to come back. But it never happened. I desperately needed to start a family, but that wasn\u2019t forthcoming. I tried so many relationships, but they all failed. Even when friends asked me why I am not into any serious relationship, I would assure them that I have someone that whenever he gets back to Nigeria, we would get married. I never knew it was just a mere dream. It affected me in so many ways, my life, my career, at a point, I had to open up to my family, she said amidst uncontrollable tears.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Read Also:\u00a0[Advice Needed] I Took A Blood Oath With My Girlfriend And Now I Want To Break It<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201cI desperately needed to start a family, but that wasn\u2019t forthcoming. I tried so many relationships, but they all failed. The guy later came back last year. And we spoke at length and I told him we should break the oath if he is no longer interested in getting married to me.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThen, a few months ago, my brother called me to search for his (My fianc\u00e9) name on Facebook that the said guy just got married. I quickly rushed to Facebook and checked. I was shocked, but I laughed over it. But I can still feel the pains. Right deep inside my heart. I want to warn our young ones out there. Love is not enough for blood oath. He deceived and used me.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI ignorantly allowed myself to be caged for years. Let the youths of nowadays learn from my story. Now, I am open to a new beginning; my healing process. With God on my side, I will get my healing. All I have lost in my past years, God will restore.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>              &#13;\n                    <\/p><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nollywood actress Sylvia Ukaatu Nollywood actress Sylvia Ukaatu has revealed that she took a blood oath with a boyfriend at the age of 18. Speaking with pearls news, the actress said; \u201cIt all started when I was 18 years old. I fell in love, deeply in love. 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