{"id":674550,"date":"2019-08-07T12:43:15","date_gmt":"2019-08-07T12:43:15","guid":{"rendered":"<br><div itemprop=\"description\">\n\t\t<h3>I<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Dear Bunmi,<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>A group of us friends are in our late 20s and my friends are always telling me how their girlfriends praise their prowess all of the time.<\/p><!-- between content ad -->\n"},"modified":"2019-08-07T12:43:15","modified_gmt":"2019-08-07T12:43:15","slug":"shouldnt-i-be-getting-more-compliments","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2019\/08\/07\/shouldnt-i-be-getting-more-compliments\/","title":{"rendered":"Shouldn\u2019t I be getting more compliments?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div itemprop=\"description\">\n<h3>I<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Dear Bunmi,<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>A group of us friends are in our late 20s and my friends are always telling me how their girlfriends praise their prowess all of the time.<\/p>\n<p><!-- between content ad --><\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1235909\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1235909\" style=\"width: 1500px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-1235909 size-full jetpack-lazy-image\" alt=\"I, Complements\" width=\"640\" height=\"388\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\"  data-lazy- src=\"https:\/\/ghanamma.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/1565181795_756_wupee.jpg\" \/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-1235909 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/ghanamma.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/1565181795_288_wupee.jpg\" alt=\"I, Complements\" width=\"640\" height=\"388\"   data-recalc-dims=\"1\"\/><\/noscript><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1235909\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Love<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Hajj: 19,081 Nigerian pilgrims in Madinah \u2015 NAHCON<span class=\"A11yNotice-u1v0gg-0 dWDZbM\">(Opens in a new browser tab)<\/span><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve had some hot affairs but not all these girls told me I drove them wild. How can I really tell if I drive them wild in bed and tell me I\u2019m the best they\u2019ve had?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Israel, <\/strong>by e-mail.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dear Israel,<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s the average man\u2019s fantasy he\u2019s voted the best lover ever. Whilst all men can\u2019t have that tag, a lot can improve on their techniques to give lovers lasting memories.<\/p>\n<p>According to an expert, most of us aren\u2019t that confident of our bodies in clothes, let alone out of them, especially in sexual positions that squash our bits up in the most unflattering ways!<\/p>\n<p>A lover who looks at his partner adoringly gives her the confidence to stop worrying about what she looks like and starts paying attention to the delicious sensation she\u2019s feeling.<\/p>\n<p>So perfect the art of flattery: absolutely nothing will score you more points as lover of her life than punctuating every kiss of every inch of her body with \u2018You are just so sexy\/beautiful! gobsmackingly gorgeous\u2019!<\/p>\n<p>Do your homework. Surprisingly, few people take time out to discover how the body\u2019s sexual response system works but, in a sense, sex is an acquired skill and you need to do your home-work to become an expert. Get your hands on a good sex book and give yourself a biology lesson they didn\u2019t give you in school.<\/p>\n<p>Refuse to have sex in bed! It might not be the most original suggestion you\u2019ve heard, but have you actually tried it? Lovers who initiate sex in rooms other that the bedroom score points simply because most people are lazy and take the easy option every time (sex in bed just before you go to sleep).<\/p>\n<p>Focus on your girl\u2019s pleasure, not yours. The better lover you are and the more pleasure she gets from sex, the more likely she is to crave it and you.<\/p>\n<p>Encourage her to open up and tell you what she needs. Does she need more foreplay? Are you picking the wrong time to initiate sex (like Sunday mornings, the only time she gets to go to church or sleep in)? Ask for feedback during sex, listen and then do exactly what she asks.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/vanguardngrnews\">@vanguardnews<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Vanguard<\/p>\n<p><h3 class=\"jp-relatedposts-headline\"><em>Related<\/em><\/h3>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p><script async src=\"http:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><script type=\"f18ab5b6a0dafca526bc8fd7-text\/javascript\">(function(d, s, id) {\n\t\tvar js, fjs = d.getElementsByTagName(s)[0];\n\t\tif (d.getElementById(id)) return;\n\t\tjs = d.createElement(s); js.id = id;\n\t\tjs.src = \"http:\/\/connect.facebook.net\/en_GB\/sdk.js#xfbml=1&version=v2.9&appId=1281965775160257\";\n\t\tfjs.parentNode.insertBefore(js, fjs);\n\t}(document, 'script', 'facebook-jssdk'));<\/script><script type=\"f18ab5b6a0dafca526bc8fd7-text\/javascript\">\n\t\/\/Facebook\n\t(function(d, s, id) {\n\t  var js, fjs = d.getElementsByTagName(s)[0];\n\t  if (d.getElementById(id)) return;\n\t  js = d.createElement(s); js.id = id;\n\t  js.src = \"http:\/\/connect.facebook.net\/en_US\/sdk.js#xfbml=1&version=v2.4&appId=513460408765074\";\n\t  fjs.parentNode.insertBefore(js, fjs);\n\t}(document, 'script', 'facebook-jssdk'));\n\t<\/script><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I Dear Bunmi, A group of us friends are in our late 20s and my friends are always telling me how their girlfriends praise their prowess all of the time. 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