{"id":674371,"date":"2019-08-07T09:38:32","date_gmt":"2019-08-07T09:38:32","guid":{"rendered":"<br><div id=\"\">\n\t<article data-io-article-url=\"https:\/\/guardian.ng\/life\/handling-opposite-sex-friendships-in-a-relationship\/\" data-post-type=\"post\" data-post-id=\"988712\"><p>When the emotions of two different people are involved, it becomes a dicey situati"},"modified":"2019-08-07T09:38:32","modified_gmt":"2019-08-07T09:38:32","slug":"handling-opposite-sex-friendships-in-a-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2019\/08\/07\/handling-opposite-sex-friendships-in-a-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"Handling Opposite-sex Friendships In A Relationship"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div id=\"\">\n<article data-io-article-url=\"https:\/\/guardian.ng\/life\/handling-opposite-sex-friendships-in-a-relationship\/\" data-post-type=\"post\" data-post-id=\"988712\">\n<p>When the emotions of two different people are involved, it becomes a dicey situation; one in which you must always thread with caution.<\/p>\n<p>However, committing ourselves to a monogamous relationship does not necessarily mean giving up the experience of being friends with people of the opposite sex when in a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>As a matter of fact, allowing ourselves to form friendships extends our social network and somehow develops our sense of belonging and aids our personal growth.<\/p>\n<p>It is not wrong to have friends outside our intimate relationship. In fact, it is vital to have friends outside our intimate relationship. The only time it may pose as a threat to your relationship is if or when you indulge in any of the following:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Engage in sexual flirtations in person or via texts<\/li>\n<li>Hide the friendship from your partner<\/li>\n<li>Compare your partner unfavourable to your friend<\/li>\n<li>Entertain romantic or sexual fantasies about your friend<\/li>\n<li>Share secrets with your friend than with your partner<\/li>\n<li>Have been romantic and\/ or sexual partners in the past<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>But, if you are certain that your friendship does not threaten your relationship, you can practice<\/p>\n<p>some of these suggestions to ensure both relationship and friendship continue to thrive:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Maintain solid boundaries with your friend and do not share private, intimate or sexual details with them<\/li>\n<li>Nurture your romantic relationship and treat your partner like your very best friend<\/li>\n<li>Ensure your partner knows your friend and stays informed about the friendship<\/li>\n<li>Avoid making new opposite-sex friends during times when you struggle in your relationship<\/li>\n<li>Resolve conflicts quickly<\/li>\n<li>create opportunities for fun, excitement and adventure with your partner<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Knowing how to maintain a healthy relationship with our partners whilst remaining engaged in opposite-sex friendships helps you both \u00a0grow as individuals by experiencing different types of closeness and connection.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<p>\t<br class=\"clear\"\/><\/p>\n<section class=\"category  design-article\" data-base-category=\"52941\">\n<h2 style=\"border-bottom-color: #00adee\"><span>Related<\/span><\/h2>\n<\/section>\n<\/div>\n<p><script>\n\t!function(f,b,e,v,n,t,s){if(f.fbq)return;n=f.fbq=function(){n.callMethod?\n\t\tn.callMethod.apply(n,arguments):n.queue.push(arguments)};if(!f._fbq)f._fbq=n;\n\t\tn.push=n;n.loaded=!0;n.version='2.0';n.queue=[];t=b.createElement(e);t.async=!0;\n\t\tt.src=v;s=b.getElementsByTagName(e)[0];s.parentNode.insertBefore(t,s)}(window,\n\t\tdocument,'script','https:\/\/connect.facebook.net\/en_US\/fbevents.js');\n\tfbq('init', '247107802609931');\n\tfbq('track', 'PageView');\n<\/script><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When the emotions of two different people are involved, it becomes a dicey situation; one in which you must always thread with caution. 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