{"id":674324,"date":"2019-08-07T08:36:43","date_gmt":"2019-08-07T08:36:43","guid":{"rendered":"<br><div id=\"post-1235781\"><!-- .entry-header --><div class=\"entry-content\" itemprop=\"description\">\n\t\t<h3>request<\/h3>\n<p>Dear Bunmi,<\/p>\n<p>My current boyfriend is a hunk, sophisticated and loving. He is also quite adventurous in his love-making. A few w"},"modified":"2019-08-07T08:36:43","modified_gmt":"2019-08-07T08:36:43","slug":"is-his-request-normal-vanguard-news-vanguard-news","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2019\/08\/07\/is-his-request-normal-vanguard-news-vanguard-news\/","title":{"rendered":"Is his request normal? &#8211; Vanguard News Vanguard News"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div id=\"post-1235781\"><!-- .entry-header --><\/p>\n<div class=\"entry-content\" itemprop=\"description\">\n<h3>request<\/h3>\n<p>Dear Bunmi,<\/p>\n<p>My current boyfriend is a hunk, sophisticated and loving. He is also quite adventurous in his love-making. A few weeks ago, he said he\u2019d like to spice up our love life by bringing his camcorder into the bedroom and taping as we make love!<\/p>\n<p><!-- between content ad --><\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1235909\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1235909\" style=\"width: 1500px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-1235909 size-full jetpack-lazy-image\" alt=\"request\" width=\"640\" height=\"388\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\"  data-lazy- src=\"https:\/\/ghanamma.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/wupee.jpg\" \/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-1235909 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/ghanamma.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/1565167003_406_wupee.jpg\" alt=\"request\" width=\"640\" height=\"388\"   data-recalc-dims=\"1\"\/><\/noscript><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1235909\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Love<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Buhari gets approval from Reps to appoint 15 Special Advisers<span class=\"A11yNotice-u1v0gg-0 dWDZbM\">(Opens in a new browser tab)<\/span><\/p>\n<p>We currently live together but until he made his weird suggestion, I had no idea he was a pervert! Half joking, I told him he needed his head examined, but he laughed at me, saying a lot of his friends did it and that it wasn\u2019t such a big deal. Is he normal?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Mandy, by e-mail. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Dear Mandy,<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>There is no evidence your boyfriend is a pervert. His request is, in fact, within the range of normal erotic play among consenting adults.<\/p>\n<p>Quite a number of couples actually enjoy making love in front of a video camera and nobody is hurt as long as both partners agree the tapes will go no further than their own VCRs. You sound as if your boyfriend\u2019s request surprised, rather than offended you!<\/p>\n<p>Why don\u2019t you indulge his fantasy at least once? Perhaps you might just find the experience pleasurable or you might feel awkward and uncomfortable. If you do, tell him you don\u2019t relish the idea of being a porn star!<\/p>\n<p>Share your problems and release your burden. Write now to <strong>\u00a0Dear Bunmi,<\/strong> <strong><em>Vanguard<\/em><\/strong> Newspapers, P.M.B 1007, Apapa, Lagos, or <em>bunmsof@yahoo.co.uk<\/em><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/vanguardngrnews\">@vanguardnews<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Vanguard<\/p>\n<p><h3 class=\"jp-relatedposts-headline\"><em>Related<\/em><\/h3>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p><!-- .entry-content -->\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<div class=\"inner-wrapper\">\n<p>\n<strong>All rights reserved. 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Love Buhari gets approval from Reps to appoint [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":674325,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-674324","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-lifestyle"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v28.8 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Is his request normal? - Vanguard News Vanguard News - Ghanamma.com<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2019\/08\/07\/is-his-request-normal-vanguard-news-vanguard-news\/\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:title\" content=\"Is his request normal? - Vanguard News Vanguard News - Ghanamma.com\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:description\" content=\"request Dear Bunmi, My current boyfriend is a hunk, sophisticated and loving. 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