{"id":668465,"date":"2019-07-31T10:34:42","date_gmt":"2019-07-31T10:34:42","guid":{"rendered":"<br><div id=\"post-1232499\"><!-- .entry-header --><div class=\"entry-content\" itemprop=\"description\">\n\t\t<p>By Dear Bunmi,<\/p>\n<p>Dear Bunmi,<\/p><!-- between content ad -->\n\n<p>I\u2019m a qualified accountant from a humble background in love with a silver-spoon g"},"modified":"2019-07-31T10:34:42","modified_gmt":"2019-07-31T10:34:42","slug":"accused-of-marrying-her-for-her-money","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2019\/07\/31\/accused-of-marrying-her-for-her-money\/","title":{"rendered":"Accused of marrying her for her money"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div id=\"post-1232499\"><!-- .entry-header --><\/p>\n<div class=\"entry-content\" itemprop=\"description\">\n<p>By Dear Bunmi,<\/p>\n<p>Dear Bunmi,<\/p>\n<p><!-- between content ad --><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m a qualified accountant from a humble background in love with a silver-spoon girl. We have a happy relationship and we are thinking of getting married. The problem is, other people seem not to approve. I have been accused of being a parasite because I\u2019m marrying someone rich.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_988451\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-988451\" style=\"width: 412px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-988451 size-full jetpack-lazy-image\" alt=\"love\" width=\"412\" height=\"302\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\"  data-lazy- src=\"https:\/\/ghanamma.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/1564569282_377_Love-cartoon.png\" \/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-988451 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/ghanamma.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/1564569282_620_Love-cartoon.png\" alt=\"love\" width=\"412\" height=\"302\"   data-recalc-dims=\"1\"\/><\/noscript><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-988451\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">love<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Woman stabbed to death by mother of daughter\u2019s boyfriend<span class=\"A11yNotice-u1v0gg-0 dWDZbM\">(Opens in a new browser tab)<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Most of the time, I shrug off this hostility, but it gets to me at time. Why can\u2019t I be left alone to enjoy what seems to be a good life?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Godson, by e-mail.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Dear Godson,<\/p>\n<p>The only way to be happy is to ask yourself one simple question: Do you feel what you are doing is right? If you have any doubts, if you feel guilty because you know deep down you\u2019re simply marrying for money, then you can\u2019t be happy. You\u2019ll be living off your partner\u2019s cash and that wouldn\u2019t be fair.<\/p>\n<p>But if you genuinely love your girlfriend and you know you are not exploiting her, then what other people say shouldn\u2019t be affecting you.<\/p>\n<p>You may be bringing valuable things to the relationship that can\u2019t be given monetary value \u2014 affection, support, energy and enthusiasm\u2014 and don\u2019t forget your educational background.<\/p>\n<p>If you are giving these special qualities all of the time, then there\u2019s absolutely no need for you to feel bad. Your contribution to the relationship is just as important as hers.<\/p>\n<p>Vanguard<\/p>\n<p><h3 class=\"jp-relatedposts-headline\"><em>Related<\/em><\/h3>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p><!-- .entry-content -->\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<div class=\"inner-wrapper\">\n<p>\n<strong>All rights reserved. , published, broadcast, ,  <span style=\"color: red;\"><\/span>.<\/strong>\n<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><script>(function(d, s, id) {\n\t\tvar js, fjs = d.getElementsByTagName(s)[0];\n\t\tif (d.getElementById(id)) return;\n\t\tjs = d.createElement(s); js.id = id;\n\t\tjs.src = \"http:\/\/connect.facebook.net\/en_GB\/sdk.js#xfbml=1&version=v2.9&appId=1281965775160257\";\n\t\tfjs.parentNode.insertBefore(js, fjs);\n\t}(document, 'script', 'facebook-jssdk'));<\/script><script>\n\t\/\/Facebook\n\t(function(d, s, id) {\n\t  var js, fjs = d.getElementsByTagName(s)[0];\n\t  if (d.getElementById(id)) return;\n\t  js = d.createElement(s); js.id = id;\n\t  js.src = \"http:\/\/connect.facebook.net\/en_US\/sdk.js#xfbml=1&version=v2.4&appId=513460408765074\";\n\t  fjs.parentNode.insertBefore(js, fjs);\n\t}(document, 'script', 'facebook-jssdk'));\n\t<\/script><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Dear Bunmi, Dear Bunmi, I\u2019m a qualified accountant from a humble background in love with a silver-spoon girl. 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I have been accused of being a parasite because I\u2019m marrying someone rich. love Woman [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":651139,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-668465","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-lifestyle"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v28.8 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Accused of marrying her for her money - Ghanamma.com<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2019\/07\/31\/accused-of-marrying-her-for-her-money\/\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:title\" content=\"Accused of marrying her for her money - Ghanamma.com\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:description\" content=\"By Dear Bunmi, Dear Bunmi, I\u2019m a qualified accountant from a humble background in love with a silver-spoon girl. 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