love<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nHis argument is that every man looks at other women, no matter how happily married he is, and that he is being open. But I hate hearing that another woman has great legs or fantastic boobs.<\/p>\n
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Lagos Flood : Mother, child sleep in toilet(Opens in a new browser tab)<\/span><\/p>\nMy husband knows I am upset by his attitude and even when he tries to stop commenting, I still catch him turning around mid-conservation to size up another woman\u2019s backside. At one point, I decided to play him at his own games by making comments about other men\u2019s looks, but it didn\u2019t bother him.<\/p>\n
He says he can\u2019t understand why his behaviour makes me feel insecure, that he\u2019s always telling me how great I look and says he\u2019d never have married me if he wanted someone else. He believes he has the right to admire other women. When I make a fuss, he says I have a problem with my confidence and should get help.<\/p>\n
Ijeoma, by e-mail.<\/p>\n
Dear Ijeoma,<\/p>\n
We all look at other people occasionally. Whilst you should make him aware that his constant staring upsets you and he should modify it, you shouldn\u2019t assume that your husband wants to make love with these people. It\u2019s like looking at a menu but don\u2019t want to eat all that\u2019s on offer.<\/p>\n
Your husband has given you no reason to believe he couldn\u2019t be trusted in the company of other women as, according to him, he not only married you, he pays you compliments all the time.<\/p>\n
I\u2019m afraid you\u2019ll have to put up with his look-but-don\u2019t touch attitude towards the female sex as it\u2019s obvious he means no harm.<\/p>\n
Vanguard<\/p>\n
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