{"id":658389,"date":"2019-07-17T17:35:25","date_gmt":"2019-07-17T17:35:25","guid":{"rendered":"<br><div itemprop=\"description\">\n\t\t<h2>Dear Bunmi<\/h2>\n<p>My partner of 12 years and I had three children, though we never got married. He first left me during my second pregnancy for another woman, but I gave him a second chance. Six months ago, he left "},"modified":"2019-07-17T17:35:25","modified_gmt":"2019-07-17T17:35:25","slug":"just-how-often-should-you-forgive-an-erring-partner","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2019\/07\/17\/just-how-often-should-you-forgive-an-erring-partner\/","title":{"rendered":"Just how often should you forgive an erring partner?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div itemprop=\"description\">\n<h2>Dear Bunmi<\/h2>\n<p>My partner of 12 years and I had three children, though we never got married. He first left me during my second pregnancy for another woman, but I gave him a second chance. Six months ago, he left me again when I was seven months pregnant with our third child for a work colleague and they\u2019re still together.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_682723\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-682723\" style=\"width: 412px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-682723 jetpack-lazy-image\" alt=\"\" width=\"412\" height=\"250\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\"  data-lazy- src=\"https:\/\/cdn.ghanamma.com\/2019\/07\/love-cartoon1.jpg\" \/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-682723\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.ghanamma.com\/2019\/07\/1563384925_603_love-cartoon1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"412\" height=\"250\"   data-recalc-dims=\"1\"\/><\/noscript><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-682723\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">love<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Right now, I intend to cut my losses and move on but last week, he told me he\u2019s made a huge mistake and wants me back. He says he misses the kids and he still loves me. We\u2019ve made love on two occasions but I told him it can\u2019t happen again.<\/p>\n<p><!-- between content ad --><\/p>\n<p>For saying \u2018fat women don\u2019t go to heaven\u2019 woman shoves priest off stage<span class=\"A11yNotice-u1v0gg-0 dWDZbM\">(Opens in a new browser tab)<\/span><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t think I want to be with him, but I don\u2019t know if I should give the relationship one last go as I do really like the idea of a proper family. I just don\u2019t know if I can trust him.<\/p>\n<p>How can he suddenly realise he loves me now and wants to marry me? He says he\u2019s constantly arguing with this other woman and he doesn\u2019t love her. She\u2019s older and going through a divorce and has a child.<\/p>\n<p>She was offering him a lot of material gifts, even a car, to symbolise them together. He now says none of that means anything any more, that I and the kids are more important than anything materialistic. Please help.<\/p>\n<p>Breaking: Pandemonium as pipeline explosion rocks Isheri, Ijegun<span class=\"A11yNotice-u1v0gg-0 dWDZbM\">(Opens in a new browser tab)<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Casandra, by e-mail.<\/p>\n<p>Dear Casandra,<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s no good time to have an affair but when your partner is pregnant? And twice?! This guy clearly knows how to play you. He knows that after all he\u2019s done, you\u2019re tempted by the lure of a happy little family. But you\u2019re never likely to have that family while he\u2019s in it.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, he\u2019s going to say he\u2019s changed, that he loves you and the children, that he doesn\u2019t feel anything for his other woman. But should you believe him and give him a third chance? I think not.<\/p>\n<p>You said you\u2019d started to move on. Well if I were you, I\u2019d continue moving on with the children, and without him.<\/p>\n<p>Vanguard<\/p>\n<p><h3 class=\"jp-relatedposts-headline\"><em>Related<\/em><\/h3>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p><script>(function(d, s, id) {\n\t\tvar js, fjs = d.getElementsByTagName(s)[0];\n\t\tif (d.getElementById(id)) return;\n\t\tjs = d.createElement(s); js.id = id;\n\t\tjs.src = \"http:\/\/connect.facebook.net\/en_GB\/sdk.js#xfbml=1&version=v2.9&appId=1281965775160257\";\n\t\tfjs.parentNode.insertBefore(js, fjs);\n\t}(document, 'script', 'facebook-jssdk'));<\/script><script>\n\t\/\/Facebook\n\t(function(d, s, id) {\n\t  var js, fjs = d.getElementsByTagName(s)[0];\n\t  if (d.getElementById(id)) return;\n\t  js = d.createElement(s); js.id = id;\n\t  js.src = \"http:\/\/connect.facebook.net\/en_US\/sdk.js#xfbml=1&version=v2.4&appId=513460408765074\";\n\t  fjs.parentNode.insertBefore(js, fjs);\n\t}(document, 'script', 'facebook-jssdk'));\n\t<\/script><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dear Bunmi My partner of 12 years and I had three children, though we never got married. 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