{"id":647898,"date":"2019-07-01T10:55:42","date_gmt":"2019-07-01T10:55:42","guid":{"rendered":"<br><div id=\"\">\n\n<p><img class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-645554\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.ghana-mma.com\/2019\/07\/nollywood-star-adesua-etomi-shows-off-her-60-year-old-mum-on-her-birthday-calls-her-my-girlfriend.jpg\" alt=\"If you haven't experienced trauma, pls "},"modified":"2019-07-01T10:55:42","modified_gmt":"2019-07-01T10:55:42","slug":"if-you-havent-experienced-trauma-pls-shut-it-adesua-etomi-says-as-she-narrates-her-personal-story-of-being-sexually-molested-as-a-child","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2019\/07\/01\/if-you-havent-experienced-trauma-pls-shut-it-adesua-etomi-says-as-she-narrates-her-personal-story-of-being-sexually-molested-as-a-child\/","title":{"rendered":"If you haven&#8217;t experienced trauma, pls shut it!!! Adesua Etomi says as she narrates her personal story of being sexually molested as a child"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div id=\"\">\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-645554\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.ghanamma.com\/2019\/07\/nollywood-star-adesua-etomi-shows-off-her-60-year-old-mum-on-her-birthday-calls-her-my-girlfriend.jpg\" alt=\"If you haven't experienced trauma, pls shut it!!! Adesua Etomi says as she narrates her personal story of being sexually molested as a child\" width=\"591\" height=\"504\"  \/><\/p>\n<p>Nollywood actress, Adesua Etomi has revealed how her lesson teacher almost raped her when she was just a child.<\/p>\n<p>According to the wife of Banky W, a Nigerian musician, her lesson teacher had grabbed her tits during home lesson \u2014 and she immediately ran out to report to her aunty.<\/p>\n<p>The actress however revealed that her aunty silenced her and made her continue the lesson saying she wouldn\u2019t stop school if her class teacher made a pass at her.<\/p>\n<p>She said it was only her mum that believed her. The actress who stands in solidarity with Busola Dakolo allegedly raped twice by Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo of Commonwealth of Zion Assembly(COZA) \u2014 people wouldn\u2019t under something except they have been through it.<\/p>\n<h4>What she said<\/h4>\n<p>Mine? Lesson teacher. The man actually grabbed tits that I didn\u2019t even really have. Ran out of the house. Told my aunty. She tried to make me continue the lessons. Her exact words were \u2018if your teacher in school makes a pass, will you stop going to class?<br \/>My mum believed me though&#x2764;<\/p>\n<p>If you haven\u2019t experienced trauma, pls shut it. I wasn\u2019t raped but when he grabbed my tits, I FROZE out of fear before I realised that I could run and RUN I DID.<\/p>\n<p><h3 class=\"jp-relatedposts-headline\"><em>Related<\/em><\/h3>\n<\/p>\n<p>              &#13;\n                    <\/p><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nollywood actress, Adesua Etomi has revealed how her lesson teacher almost raped her when she was just a child. According to the wife of Banky W, a Nigerian musician, her lesson teacher had grabbed her tits during home lesson \u2014 and she immediately ran out to report to her aunty. 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