\u201cMy girlfriend and I have been an item for nine months now and everything was going on well except for one thing \u2013 she\u2019s a chronic flirt and she always flirts with one of my best friends who is more good-looking than I am. Her flirting really gets to me that when I met one of her friends at a party where I was very drunk, I flirted with her to get even. The girl ended up following me into an empty bedroom, came onto me and we ended up having sex.\u00a0 I mean, what man wouldn\u2019t if it was offered to him on such a platter?\u00a0 I didn\u2019t really intend taking things that far but I was drunk, like I said earlier, but just went along with it.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou can then imagine how dumbfounded I was when this girl went back to the party and told my girlfriend what happened.\u00a0 Apparently, my girlfriend once stole one of her boyfriends a few years ago and it was pay back sex for her.\u00a0 Well, it was the same for me \u2013 I only did it to get at my girlfriend for flirting with my best friend but now it\u2019s all a mess.\u00a0 I managed to convince my girlfriend that her friend was lying but you can tell she doesn\u2019t trust me any more. How I wish I could win her trust back \u2026\u201d.<\/p>\n
Have you ever heard of so much revenge sex going on within a short period?\u00a0 Deolu slept with his girlfriend\u2019s friend to get even with her for flirting; the friend slept with Deolu to get even with Deolu\u2019s girlfriend for stealing her boyfriend years before. Just how childish can you get?\u00a0 Some months back, Ruki was fed up with her partner with whom she had a son, for always breaking their dates. So when Maxwell, the partner broke yet another date, she was boiling mad, \u201cShe knows I have a wife at home\u201d, he said sadly, \u201cand I can\u2019t always stick to a scheduled appointment as anything could crop up.\u00a0\u00a0 To my girlfriend, however, whenever I wasn\u2019t with her, I must be having a good romp somewhere else.<\/p>\n
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\u201cThis day in question though, my wife agreed to go to the family function we had previously planned alone and I drone excitedly to my woman\u2019s place. Our four-year-old son would be away at play in school, so I was really looking forward to a relaxed afternoon. When I got to her place, I was surprised her front door was opened. So I went, bounded up the stairs to her bedroom and opened the door. I watched transfixed as I saw this man\u2019s bum in the air making frantic love to the mother my child!\u00a0 When she saw me, her eyes widened, but she didn\u2019t say anything. I went back downstairs and waited.\u00a0 A few minutes later, she came into the living room where I still sat as if all that was happening had nothing to do with me. Lover-boy must have exited through the kitchen door.<\/p>\n
\u201c`Why?\u2019 was the heartbreaking question I asked her. As she babbled on about how she thought I wasn\u2019t coming, how the man was an old friend that just happened along, I took my car keys and left. I haven\u2019t heard from her since \u2013 give her kudos for having a conscience and having the common sense not to flog a dead horse. I loved that girl, stuck my neck out to have a child with her because she wanted one.\u00a0 Now what? We would eventually get together to discuss the welfare of our son, but I\u2019m pretty certain I\u2019ll never make love to her again. The site of that bum bouncing away at her will hunt me for a very long time \u2026\u201d<\/p>\n
With revenge sex, there is this brief powerful moment just before the deed is done. Sadly, a lot of people report a long-lasting low the second it\u2019s over.\u00a0 \u201cIt\u2019s a cheap, trashy thing to do\u201d, said Mutiat who was once a victim of revenge sex, \u201cand that\u2019s how you feel afterwards. The person you did it with feel used and most decent people feel even worse about themselves. On top of all this, there\u2019s the fact that if there ever was any hope of a reunion, with the partner you\u2019re trying to get even with, you would have blown it by having sex with someone else\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n
In Deolu\u2019s case, it wasn\u2019t even \u2018an eye for an eye\u2019. His girlfriend merely flirted with a mate he\u2019s clearly jealous of.\u00a0 She didn\u2019t kiss him or sleep with him or do anything horrid behind his back. His rushing into full-blown sex with another woman might be either because he was gagging for sex or he never really cared for this girlfriend he said he was in love with.\u00a0 He needs to grow up though.<\/p>\n
What he did was the stuff of teenagers \u2013 not grown-ups.<\/p>\n
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