Dear Bunmi,<\/strong><\/p>\n When a junior colleague was having personal problems, especially with her landlord, I let her move in with me and "},"modified":"2019-06-28T17:15:59","modified_gmt":"2019-06-28T17:15:59","slug":"hubby-slept-with-a-colleague-i-took-in","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2019\/06\/28\/hubby-slept-with-a-colleague-i-took-in\/","title":{"rendered":"Hubby slept with a colleague I took in"},"content":{"rendered":" <\/p>\n Dear Bunmi,<\/strong><\/p>\n When a junior colleague was having personal problems, especially with her landlord, I let her move in with me and my husband. She\u2019s young enough to be our daughter and I enjoyed her company. It was to be a temporary solution until she found alternate accommodation.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Unfortunately, I\u2019ve just discovered she\u2019s been sleeping with my husband even after she moved out. I\u2019m devastated, I feel like such an old fool!<\/p>\n Tessy,<\/strong> by e-mail.<\/p>\n Honestly, my wife\u2019s complaints make me angry, husband tells court(Opens in a new browser tab)<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n \u00a0<\/p>\n Dear Tessy,<\/strong><\/p>\n I\u2019m sorry this has happened to you \u2014 it will take a long, long time for you to recover from this double betrayal. I\u2019ve never been one for rushing in fancy-free women into your home with an able-bodied husband around, no matter how sorry you feel for her.<\/em><\/p>\n But never think of yourself as a fool. You\u2019re a kind, generous warm\u00adhearted woman who should deserve admiration and respect. It\u2019s your husband and your so-called friend who are the fools, for betraying you.<\/em><\/p>\n The only regret here is that you brought both of them together. You need to move on with your life and discuss how hurt you feel with your husband, and how you can repair the trust in your marriage.<\/em><\/p>\n \n<\/div>\nRelated<\/em><\/h3>\n<\/p><\/div>\n