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Dear Bunmi,<\/strong><\/p>\n

I met a married man whilst I was away on a course from work. We got really friendly as we chatted about all sorts "},"modified":"2019-06-28T17:14:00","modified_gmt":"2019-06-28T17:14:00","slug":"i-doubt-hell-leave-his-wife","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2019\/06\/28\/i-doubt-hell-leave-his-wife\/","title":{"rendered":"I doubt he\u2019ll leave his wife"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Dear Bunmi,<\/strong><\/p>\n

I met a married man whilst I was away on a course from work. We got really friendly as we chatted about all sorts of things. He told me he was married but that it wasn\u2019t working.<\/p>\n

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He invited me out with him and his wife, but I didn\u2019t want to come between them, so I made an excuse not to go. We then started a relationship we both agreed would be short-lived.<\/p>\n

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Towards the end of the course, he told me he wanted to leave his wife. The course ended a while back and I\u2019m not sure if he\u2019s left his wife. I miss him a lot and have this insatiable need to know what happened.<\/p>\n

Abike,<\/strong> by e-mail.<\/p>\n

Dear Abike,<\/strong><\/p>\n

Why don\u2019t you get in touch with him again if you know how\u2014 you have to know the end of this interesting story. But you have to take things very carefully, because you\u2019re right to think you could come between him and his wife at a tricky time in their relationship.<\/p>\n

If it\u2019s the case that he and his wife have indeed parted, he won\u2019t be ready to make another relationship yet. He\u2019ll still be recovering from the split and could well end up breaking your heart without meaning to.<\/p>\n

Contact this man simply as a friend. If he\u2019s still with his wife, then, back off! If he\u2019s not, carry on being his friend until he\u2019s recovered. And, after that, who knows what might happen?<\/p>\n

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