Nagging, quarreling and insulting behavior was believed to be associated with women but Counselor Frank Edem Adofoli has in his latest article revealed men are also guilty of these unhealthy habits and perhaps are overtaking their female counterparts.
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In his latest article sighted by MyNewsGh.com, he revealed that some men have cultivated the habit of even discussing their female partners with their peers and that of the lady’s friends which is a complete put off.
“There is another
category of men who act like the ladies themselves; they insult, quarrel and
nag more than the ladies do. They tend to talk too much to the extent of
discussing their lady with her friends and other ladies”, he revealed
According to him, nothing hurts a lady as much as finding
out that her man is discussing their personal issues with no other person than
his ex. She feels disrespect and makes her overthink
Read the full text of his latest article below;
DON’T DISCUSS YOUR WOMAN WITH YOUR EX
Women are like a driver’s mate in a car who see their men as
the main drivers. She might not be as good, experienced and skillful as her
boss, the driver; she is safe and secure with him trusting that, anytime she
loses control or goes wrong, the driver her boss, will take in charge fully.
Security means so much to women, and they want to be with a
man they feel safe and secure, a man who is mature enough to handle them even
when they are acting like kids. A lot of women want to marry someone who is
taller than them; some want thick tall spouses, elegant in structure etc.
because the physique conveys a message of security to them.
To a woman maturity means security, that’s why a lot of
women find it hard to date someone they are older than. Even if you are her
junior in school, but prove to be more matured than her class mate, she will
opt for the junior. Women are secure with the one who is mature.
So the fact that she is in love with a man and can tell him
everything, means when things goes wrong in their relationship, or one hurts
the other or they face conflict, etc. she expects her man to be mature about
stuffs like this. He should know when to ignore some of her empty threats, calm
her down, give her space but never withdraw his attention. Women find it hard
to leave men who are able to do this.
Ladies like competition and because of that, it’s easy for
them to compare themselves to friends and feel bad. Many ladies have friends
with whom they don’t discuss details of their relationships or personal life.
There is another category of men who act like the ladies
themselves; they insult, quarrel and nag more than the ladies do. They tend to
talk too much to the extent of discussing their lady with her friends and other
ladies.
Nothing hurts a lady as much as finding out that her man is
discussing their personal issues with no other person than his ex. She feels
disrespect and makes her overthink.
She becomes insecure, gets jealous and thinks his ex makes
him happier. She starts comparing herself to his ex. “Is she prettier than
I am, is she smarter than me, is she more fun and exciting to be with?”.
If she was that good, then why did she become an ex? or are they still in love
but just pretending?
They sometimes think to the point that, they no longer have
reasons to stay. So despite your many apologies, they feel you are better off
with your ex.
She finds it easy to forgive you but hard to accept you or be with you because, you have given her evidence that there is a devil in your life who is better than the angel she is.
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In conclusion “A wise man is cautious and avoids
danger; a fool plunges ahead with great confidence” – Proverbs 14:16 (TLB)
Source:MyNewsGh.com/Stephen Zoure/2019
