{"id":466412,"date":"2018-02-21T21:08:58","date_gmt":"2018-02-21T21:08:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ghana-mma.com\/2018\/02\/21\/lifestyle-10-truths-guys-need-to-hear-about-oral-sex\/"},"modified":"2018-02-21T21:08:58","modified_gmt":"2018-02-21T21:08:58","slug":"lifestyle-10-truths-guys-need-to-hear-about-oral-sex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2018\/02\/21\/lifestyle-10-truths-guys-need-to-hear-about-oral-sex\/","title":{"rendered":"Lifestyle: 10 Truths guys need to hear about oral sex"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Entertainment of Wednesday, 21 February 2018<\/p>\n

Source: <\/strong>Frank Kobola<\/p>\n

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He needs a warning system in place before he orgasms. Unless you\u2019ve agreed upon this in advance, he can\u2019t just finish in your mouth out of nowhere.<\/p>\n

Otherwise, it\u2019s like drinking a bottle of soft drink and someone running up and squeezing it.<\/p>\n

Not a great feeling, unless you love soft drinks so much it doesn\u2019t bother you. But some form of communication, even if it\u2019s a tap of the head, is helpful.<\/p>\n

\u2022He needs to appreciate the time you’re putting in:You\u2019re (probably, mostly) down here for their sake, not yours. That doesn\u2019t mean you’re not enjoying yourself, and it doesn’t mean he should feel guilty.<\/p>\n

But he should at least keep an eye on the clock, here. There is only so much you can do before you get carpal tunnel of the jaw, or whatever.<\/p>\n

\u2022He needs to at least offer to return the favor: If you\u2019re not into oral, okay, that\u2019s fine.<\/p>\n

But being willing to reciprocate is still the right thing to do.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s like how if you show up at someone\u2019s house, it\u2019s courteous to offer them something to drink. Even if you\u2019re not thirsty, it\u2019s kind of rude for your host not to ask.<\/p>\n

\u2022He can\u2019t just hang out down there giving you a tongue bath: He needs to have an end goal and at least some idea of what he\u2019s doing. Feel free to offer specifics, but also to shut down this behavior ASAP.<\/p>\n

\u2022He\u2019s gotta incorporate his hands.<\/p>\n

If and when possible, obviously. It’s probably not possible to give you a two-for-one when you\u2019re riding his face off into the sunset.<\/p>\n

\u2022 He’s gotta stop all the sh*t he\u2019s doing with your hair: It’s is just distracting. Sure, it’s nice to know he\u2019s into it and not falling asleep, but if he\u2019s going to be tugging on your hair that much, he might as well braid it.<\/p>\n

\u2022 There\u2019s such a thing as too much eye contact: Eye contact can be hot.<\/p>\n

Some people love the intimacy that goes along with eye contact during a sex act.<\/p>\n

On the flipside, some people think a piercing gaze during sex is the mark of a serial killer.<\/p>\n

But no matter how much you love penetrating stares, if he\u2019s too busy focusing on your face and not your vagina when he’s going down on you, that\u2019s bad.<\/p>\n

If he\u2019s staring at you, unblinking and emotionless while you\u2019re going down on him, also weird.<\/p>\n

\u2022Just because you orgasmed once, doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re \u201ctaken care of\u201d: Every woman orgasms differently, and just because he got you off once doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re really \u201cdone.\u201d<\/p>\n

Guys can sometimes (understandably) have a hard time relating. We got shafted in this department in that we\u2019re very much one-and-done.<\/p>\n

\u2022If he doesn\u2019t want to kiss you after, he can\u2019t expect you\u2019ll want to do the reverse: Some people think it\u2019s fine, some people think it\u2019s gross.<\/p>\n

But if he wants you to gargle with mouthwash post-oral, he can\u2019t expect to come out from between your legs and start making out.<\/p>\n

Talk it out in advance and try to be cool with where your partner is coming from.<\/p>\n

\u2022 He still needs to practice safe sex: If you want him to put on a condom or use a dental dam, he needs to respect that. This is non-negotiable.<\/p>\n

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