{"id":464323,"date":"2018-02-14T16:00:25","date_gmt":"2018-02-14T16:00:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ghana-mma.com\/2018\/02\/14\/stop-begging-men-for-money-gifts-dr-buckman-tells-women\/"},"modified":"2018-02-14T16:00:25","modified_gmt":"2018-02-14T16:00:25","slug":"stop-begging-men-for-money-gifts-dr-buckman-tells-women","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2018\/02\/14\/stop-begging-men-for-money-gifts-dr-buckman-tells-women\/","title":{"rendered":"Stop begging men for money, gifts &#8211; Dr Buckman tells women"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div id=\"medsection1\">\n<!-- End of html generated by this->header() --><\/p>\n<p class=\"floatLeft\">Entertainment of Wednesday, 14 February 2018<\/p>\n<p class=\"floatRight\"><strong>Source: <\/strong>www.ghanaweb.com<\/p>\n<p>2018-02-14<\/p>\n<div class=\"article-left\">\n<p class=\"article-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/ghanamma.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/53543053.295.jpg\" alt=\"DRBUCK2\" title=\"DRBUCK2\" width=\"295\" height=\"204\" \/><span class=\"play-icon\">play video<\/span><span class=\"image_caption\"><span>Dr Charles Buckman<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"noPrint\">\n<div id=\"537626303\" style=\"width:300;height:250;margin:0;padding:0\">\n<p>\t\t  <noscript><iframe loading=\"lazy\" id=\"b2ad7fa7fd\" name=\"b2ad7fa7fd\" src=\"http:\/\/ghanaweb-d.openx.net\/w\/1.0\/afr?auid=537626303&amp;cb=151125817981905\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" width=\"300\" height=\"250\"><a href=\"\/\/ghanaweb-d.openx.net\/w\/1.0\/rc?cs=b2ad7fa7fd&amp;cb=151125817981905\"><\/p>\n<p>\t\t  <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/ghanamma.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/1518624025_162_ai\" border=\"0\" alt=\"\" \/><\/a><\/iframe><\/noscript><\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p style=\"clear:right\">Dr Charles Buckman, a motivational speaker has asked women to refrain from making constant demands for money and gifts in relationships but rather work hard to cater for themselves.<\/p>\n<p>The relationship expert advised women not to expect men to pay for their expensive hair extensions or even provide basic items like airtime for them since \u2018begging\u2019 for such gifts does not command any form of respect from them but diminishes their self-worth. <\/p>\n<p>\u2018\u2019if you date, don\u2019t ask any man for money. Stop begging for money. It\u2019s serious because if he keeps giving you he wonders how you will react if he does not have. So that\u2019s an iota of doubts. Rather, pray for God to touch his heart but when you keep asking a man for items of that sort it reduces his respect for you. It\u2019s even sad that some women ask for simple little things like airtime.<\/p>\n<p>Having men spend on hair, clothes, etc. has become a norm for many ladies in today\u2019s society. As a matter of fact most ladies factor \u2018money\u2019 in the criteria for \u2018considering\u2019 a partner. For most of them, spending shows how far a man is willing to go to sacrifice for someone he loves.<\/p>\n<p>Dr. Buckman however believes such behavior reduces the self-worth of the lady and presents her as an \u2018unserious gold-digger\u2019 to the prospective lover.<br \/>&#13;<br \/>\n\u201cIf I\u2019m going to marry a woman and she cannot afford airtime then what future do we have? That\u2019s how they think. Premarital gifts are dangerous. Many girls from Ghana now have multiple relationships without them knowing.<\/p>\n<p>Such ladies have lost their self-worth because they are defined by their Brazilian, Peru hair extensions and expensive make-up which is a big problem\u2019\u2019, he detailed.<\/p>\n<p>Dr Charles Buckman was speaking at a Pre-Valentine\u2019s day seminar organised by the Full Gospel Men\u2019s Fellowship in Accra.<\/p>\n<p>Dr Buckman is an internationally acclaimed motivational lecturer, a spiritual mentor, a relationship expert and founder of Dr Buckman foundation.<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/content.jwplatform.com\/players\/PWCRIDcv-GtVgZhNx.html\" width=\"600\" height=\"350\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"auto\" allowfullscreen=\"\" style=\"position:absolute;\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><!-- uploaded by: 61 updated by: -1 --><\/p>\n<p><!-- Start of html generated by this->footer() -->\n<\/div>\n<p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a style=\"display:none\" rel=\"follow\" href=\"http:\/\/megatheme.ir\/\" title=\"\u0642\u0627\u0644\u0628 \u0648\u0631\u062f\u067e\u0631\u0633\">\u0642\u0627\u0644\u0628 \u0648\u0631\u062f\u067e\u0631\u0633<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Entertainment of Wednesday, 14 February 2018 Source: www.ghanaweb.com 2018-02-14 play videoDr Charles Buckman Dr Charles Buckman, a motivational speaker has asked women to refrain from making constant demands for money and gifts in relationships but rather work hard to cater for themselves. 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