{"id":446537,"date":"2017-12-13T06:00:27","date_gmt":"2017-12-13T06:00:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ghana-mma.com\/2017\/12\/13\/lifestyle-5-ways-you-can-accidentally-become-someones-boyfriend\/"},"modified":"2017-12-13T06:00:27","modified_gmt":"2017-12-13T06:00:27","slug":"lifestyle-5-ways-you-can-accidentally-become-someones-boyfriend","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2017\/12\/13\/lifestyle-5-ways-you-can-accidentally-become-someones-boyfriend\/","title":{"rendered":"LIFESTYLE: 5 ways you can accidentally become someone\u2019s boyfriend"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div id=\"medsection1\">\n<!-- End of html generated by this->header() --><\/p>\n<p class=\"floatLeft\">Entertainment of Wednesday, 13 December 2017<\/p>\n<p class=\"floatRight\"><strong>Source: <\/strong>musingsofanafricanbachelor.com<\/p>\n<p>2017-12-13<\/p>\n<div class=\"article-left\">\n<p class=\"article-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/ghanamma.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/52428876.295.jpg\" alt=\"Couple Bae\" title=\"Couple Bae\" width=\"295\" height=\"196\" \/><span class=\"image_caption\"><span>File Photo<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"noPrint\">\n<div id=\"537626303\" style=\"width:300;height:250;margin:0;padding:0\">\n<p>\t\t  <noscript><iframe loading=\"lazy\" id=\"b2ad7fa7fd\" name=\"b2ad7fa7fd\" src=\"http:\/\/ghanaweb-d.openx.net\/w\/1.0\/afr?auid=537626303&amp;cb=151125817981905\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" width=\"300\" height=\"250\"><a href=\"\/\/ghanaweb-d.openx.net\/w\/1.0\/rc?cs=b2ad7fa7fd&amp;cb=151125817981905\"><\/p>\n<p>\t\t  <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/ghanamma.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/1513144827_677_ai\" border=\"0\" alt=\"\" \/><\/a><\/iframe><\/noscript><\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p style=\"clear:right\"> There\u2019s a scary moment in every relationship when things starts to get serious and you\u2019re not mentally prepared for the next level.<\/p>\n<p>Here is the thing, if you\u2019re still hooking up and spending time with a woman you don\u2019t want to date after a month or two, there is a chance you may accidentally back yourself into becoming someone\u2019s bae.<\/p>\n<p>If you have a bachelor\u2019s pad like I do, you may wake up one day, look around and go, \u201coh snap, I\u2019m someone\u2019s boyfriend!\u201d Suddenly you realize that she comes and goes as she pleases, she has a key to your place and the regular sex has become routine. Tough, huh? I don\u2019t need to remind you that you\u2019ve been enjoying the sex and her company so it is what it is.<\/p>\n<p>One zillion questions start bubbling around in your brain and you try to figure out how you got here. You know you\u2019ve not had \u201cthe talk\u201d and your judgment has been clouded by the regular sex. You\u2019re deep in the relationship so you can\u2019t rock the boat now.<\/p>\n<p>Well, Accidental Bae, here are the signs you may have missed.<\/p>\n<p><b>The pink towel and the toothbrush<\/b><\/p>\n<p>There comes a pivotal point in every hookup situation when a girl decides that she\u2019s spent one too many mornings waking up in your bed so it starts with an extra toothbrush. Before long, a hairbrush shows up, a full beauty regiment bag follows and finally, a pink towel makes a grand entrance and stays for good. Bringing a toothbrush has a purpose and her intention is to stick around for a while so smile, you\u2019re someone\u2019s bae!<\/p>\n<p><b>Sleepover no longer means sex<\/b><\/p>\n<p>When you get to a point where you both can say \u201cI\u2019m too exhausted or I ate too much jollof rice or my cramps are killing me so can we just go to bed?\u201d you must know that you\u2019ve reached a higher status; Bae.<\/p>\n<p><b>Her friends can\u2019t wait to meet you<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Has she sent those cute selfies you took to all her friends with heart-shaped emojis? Have you showed up on her snapchat with a crown of chirping birds around your head? Trust me, if her friends have pictures, congratulations are in order because you\u2019ve graduated to Bae. If her girlfriends greet you with exceptionally warm smiles, get very comfy because you are part of the crew now.<\/p>\n<p><b>The unexpected makeover<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You have two solid pairs of shoes; one for work and another for outings. You have two pairs of sneakers; one for the gym and another for casual dressing. In your closet hangs the clothes which have stuck with you over the years. The shirt which shows your muscles, the one pair of jeans which goes with everything and your all-time favorite camouflage shorts.<\/p>\n<p>Have you received constructive criticism about your camouflage shorts lately? Has she suggested that you might want to think about replacing your favorite muscles shirt or getting another pair of jeans?<\/p>\n<p>Has she joked about throwing away some of your shoes because they look hideous? If she\u2019s started the process of fixing you, she thinks you\u2019re perfect and ready for primetime. Take it as a compliment that she hates your clothes and shoes because Bae needs you to show up looking fresh always!<\/p>\n<p><b>The just-in-case box of pads<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Fellas, I\u2019ll tell you what you\u2019ve got if you find a box of pads, tampons or panty-liners in your medicine cabinet or bathroom drawers; you\u2019ve got yourself a girlfriend! Yayyyyyy! Let\u2019s have another big round of applause for you! I\u2019m not talking about the pocket-size feminine products. I\u2019m talking about the value pack which will last for months before she runs out. Don\u2019t fret; pads equals love. 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Here is the thing, if you\u2019re still hooking up and spending time with a woman you don\u2019t want to date after a [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":0,"featured_media":446538,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-446537","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-entertainment"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v28.8 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>LIFESTYLE: 5 ways you can accidentally become someone\u2019s boyfriend - Ghanamma.com<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2017\/12\/13\/lifestyle-5-ways-you-can-accidentally-become-someones-boyfriend\/\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:title\" content=\"LIFESTYLE: 5 ways you can accidentally become someone\u2019s boyfriend - Ghanamma.com\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:description\" content=\"Entertainment of Wednesday, 13 December 2017 Source: musingsofanafricanbachelor.com 2017-12-13 File Photo There\u2019s a scary moment in every relationship when things starts to get serious and you\u2019re not mentally prepared for the next level. 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