{"id":438038,"date":"2017-11-17T01:00:28","date_gmt":"2017-11-17T01:00:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ghana-mma.com\/2017\/11\/17\/lifestyle-how-to-get-her-to-dump-you-in-6-steps\/"},"modified":"2017-11-17T01:00:28","modified_gmt":"2017-11-17T01:00:28","slug":"lifestyle-how-to-get-her-to-dump-you-in-6-steps","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2017\/11\/17\/lifestyle-how-to-get-her-to-dump-you-in-6-steps\/","title":{"rendered":"Lifestyle: How to get her to dump you in 6 steps"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div id=\"medsection1\">\n<!-- End of html generated by this->header() --><\/p>\n<p class=\"floatLeft\">Entertainment of Friday, 17 November 2017<\/p>\n<p class=\"floatRight\"><strong>Source: <\/strong>Andrea Madison<\/p>\n<p>2017-11-17<\/p>\n<div class=\"article-left\">\n<p class=\"article-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/ghanamma.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/34928791.295.jpg\" alt=\"Breakup Photo\" title=\"Breakup Photo\" width=\"295\" height=\"211\" \/><span class=\"image_caption\"><span>Ironically, men and women suffer the same affliction in the breakup department<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"noPrint\">\n<div id=\"537626303\" style=\"width:300;height:250;margin:0;padding:0\">\n<p>\t\t  <noscript><iframe loading=\"lazy\" id=\"b2ad7fa7fd\" name=\"b2ad7fa7fd\" src=\"http:\/\/ghanaweb-d.openx.net\/w\/1.0\/afr?auid=537626303&amp;cb=151057539937222\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" width=\"300\" height=\"250\"><a href=\"\/\/ghanaweb-d.openx.net\/w\/1.0\/rc?cs=b2ad7fa7fd&amp;cb=151057539937222\"><\/p>\n<p>\t\t  <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/ghanamma.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/1510880428_633_ai\" border=\"0\" alt=\"\" \/><\/a><\/iframe><\/noscript><\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p style=\"clear:right\">Your relationship has run its course and you are ready to go your separate ways. But as much as you\u2019d like to make a clean break, you are too spineless to actually sit her down and have \u201cthe talk.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ironically, men and women suffer the same affliction in the breakup department: cowardice. Yes, both men and women often wait out a relationship, hoping the other party will do the deed and end it officially.<\/p>\n<p>So, for the man who wants out but is too much of a coward to do it himself, I have devised a step-by-step approach to accelerate the process of, well, getting dumped.<\/p>\n<p>Below are six things that really drive us women mad. You can take them in the order they are arranged, or you can pick and choose what tactics you think would be most effective in your particular situation.<\/p>\n<p>So if you want to get dumped quickly (though I can\u2019t guarantee painlessly), read on.<\/p>\n<p><b><\/b>Be ultra-noncommittal: If you can\u2019t make or keep firm plans with her, she\u2019ll know something is up. Most women know that when a man is interested, he wants to spend time with her; so when she sees you\u2019re canceling dates at the last minute, she\u2019ll be on to you.<\/p>\n<p>Doing this consistently is both rude and a strong statement that you\u2019re not that into her but I guess that\u2019s what you\u2019re going for here.<\/p>\n<p><b><\/b>Be depressing: If you stop using your clever sense of humour and wit, going out together will become increasingly boring for the both of you.<\/p>\n<p>From her perspective, if she enjoys your time together less, in turn, her interest in you may start to wane. She probably won\u2019t break up with you over this alone, but it\u2019s certainly a step in that direction.<\/p>\n<p><b><\/b>Stop being affectionate: You can\u2019t have your cake and eat it too, so if you are trying to keep her at arm\u2019s length, it\u2019s only fair to stop being intimate. In addition, if you discontinue all signs of affection like holding hands, kissing and touching her waist, she\u2019ll feel your cold shoulder.<\/p>\n<p><b><\/b>Be inconsiderate: You not only forget her birthday, your anniversary and other important dates, but you also show indifference about making plans for these occasions at all. These are all strong messages that you don\u2019t take your relationship seriously.<\/p>\n<p><b><\/b>Tell her you don&#8217;t believe in marriage: This should put some of the final nails in your coffin. Of course, not every woman necessarily wants to get married, but a blatant statement like this will let her know that you\u2019re not serious about a future together. This is more than a hint \u2014 and she\u2019ll get it.<\/p>\n<p><b><\/b>Disagree, all the time, about everything: When she wants Chinese food, you want Italian. If she\u2019s on the political right, you\u2019re on the left. Your unwavering opposition will be tiring to her, and within no time, she should be annoyed enough to send you packing.<\/p>\n<p>However, before you implement the above steps, do consider the alternative: You can sit her down, and politely tell her that you\u2019d like to go your separate ways, saving both of you the time and aggravation.<\/p>\n<p>But for all you weasels out there, if you follow the above steps, chances are that she\u2019ll throw your cowardly self out the door before you even get to step number six.<\/p>\n<p><!-- uploaded by: 26 updated by: -1 --><\/p>\n<p><!-- Start of html generated by this->footer() -->\n<\/div>\n<p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a style=\"display:none\" rel=\"follow\" href=\"http:\/\/megatheme.ir\/\" title=\"\u0642\u0627\u0644\u0628 \u0648\u0631\u062f\u067e\u0631\u0633\">\u0642\u0627\u0644\u0628 \u0648\u0631\u062f\u067e\u0631\u0633<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Entertainment of Friday, 17 November 2017 Source: Andrea Madison 2017-11-17 Ironically, men and women suffer the same affliction in the breakup department Your relationship has run its course and you are ready to go your separate ways. 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