{"id":392497,"date":"2017-05-27T10:40:12","date_gmt":"2017-05-27T10:40:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ghana-mma.com\/2017\/05\/27\/how-to-be-the-cool-girl-guys-simply-cant-resist\/"},"modified":"2017-05-27T10:40:12","modified_gmt":"2017-05-27T10:40:12","slug":"how-to-be-the-cool-girl-guys-simply-cant-resist","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2017\/05\/27\/how-to-be-the-cool-girl-guys-simply-cant-resist\/","title":{"rendered":"How to be the \u201ccool girl\u201d guys simply can\u2019t resist"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/ghanamma.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/black-couple-on-a-date-pf.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n<div>\n<p>Did you know that most men decide if a woman is \u201cgirlfriend material\u201d within a few seconds of meeting her?<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s right \u2013 if you don\u2019t know how to create the right first impression with a man, then you just might get thrown into the \u201cjust a friend\u201d category for good.<\/p>\n<p><strong>That\u2019s why it\u2019s important to understand what attracts men to you at a deeper level from the get-go.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Men think of women as relationship material \u2014\u00a0or a \u201ccool girl\u201d \u2014\u00a0when they see that a woman understands something that other women can\u2019t even see going on.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cCool girls\u201d exude positive emotional energy that men can relate to. And they\u2019re naturally the kind of women who every man is inexplicably drawn to, \u00a0even if they don\u2019t look like a supermodel.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Here\u2019s a list of what \u201ccool girls\u201d DON\u2019T do:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Cool Girls DON\u2019T exaggerate what\u2019s going on around them or what a man\u2019s doing, unless they\u2019re doing it as a joke or to make fun of a man in a playful way.<\/li>\n<li>Cool Girls DON\u2019T say everything that they\u2019re feeling and experiencing. They think before they speak.<\/li>\n<li>Cool Girls DON\u2019T mention bad situations, issues or problems from the past unless it\u2019s a total \u201cmust\u201d or extremely important and they haven\u2019t been able to talk about it yet. They find the right time for them AND their man to talk. Otherwise, Cool Girls live in the present moment.<\/li>\n<li>Cool Girls DON\u2019T try to FORCE a man to talk about his feelings. They know that it will only backfire and he\u2019ll think she\u2019s being needy and he\u2019ll close off.<\/li>\n<li>Cool girls DON\u2019T complain or talk about things for too long that are not other people\u2019s responsibility or impossible for anyone to solve given the current situation.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Here are a few of the \u201ccool girl\u201d DOs (remember these if you want to get a guy to like you):<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Cool girls bring funny, positive thoughts and feelings to situations to create an experience that men will want to have again and again.<\/li>\n<li>Cool girls are willing to go with the flow when it comes to social things but make assertions when they have opinions and ideas.<\/li>\n<li>Cool girls have options and things to do that keep them satisfied so they don\u2019t feel like they\u2019re left out if they\u2019re not invited to something (And even if they do, they certainly don\u2019t complain about it or even mention it \u2014 they FIND something to do that makes them happy).<\/li>\n<li>Cool girls prefer that a man makes up his own mind; they don\u2019t try to make a man do something.<\/li>\n<li>Cool girls know that the way they feel and talk about themselves is how men will feel about them.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>So, are YOU a \u201ccool girl\u201d? Ask yourself these questions:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Are you the kind of woman that men are naturally drawn to and want to be with for more than just a fling?<\/p>\n<p>And do you get how to say all the right things verbally and non-verballyto let him instantly know that you\u2019re the kind of girl he\u2019d like to connect and fall in love with?<\/p>\n<p><em>\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p>\u2013<\/p>\n<p>Source: Your Tango<\/p>\n<p><!-- Quick Adsense WordPress Plugin: http:\/\/quicksense.net\/ --><\/p>\n<p><span class=\"ctx-article-root\"\/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/p><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Did you know that most men decide if a woman is \u201cgirlfriend material\u201d within a few seconds of meeting her? That\u2019s right \u2013 if you don\u2019t know how to create the right first impression with a man, then you just might get thrown into the \u201cjust a friend\u201d category for good. That\u2019s why it\u2019s important [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":0,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-392497","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","category-business"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v28.8 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>How to be the \u201ccool girl\u201d guys simply can\u2019t resist - Ghanamma.com<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2017\/05\/27\/how-to-be-the-cool-girl-guys-simply-cant-resist\/\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:title\" content=\"How to be the \u201ccool girl\u201d guys simply can\u2019t resist - Ghanamma.com\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:description\" content=\"Did you know that most men decide if a woman is \u201cgirlfriend material\u201d within a few seconds of meeting her? 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