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Whether you went on your honeymoon 12 years ago, or don\u2019t plan on going on one for another 12 years, you can create the wedding-night s*x vibe by triggering your reward system.\u00a0This sends feel-good chemicals dopamine and epinephrine, the same hormones your body pumps out when you\u2019re super blissed out\u2014like on your wedding day.<\/p>\n
In the morning, use a ballpoint pen to write him a sexy note somewhere on his body. Try the top of his thigh (prime real estate, with minimum exposure to coworkers). Giving him (and yourself) nine or 10 hours to see, think about, and fantasize about your note starts the percolation process.<\/p>\n
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Once you\u2019re both home, have him hold your head with both hands, tilt your head back, and gently kiss the side of your neck. Ask him to stay away from your traditional \u201cgo-to\u201d spots, kissing the parts of your body he usually ignores, like the inside of your elbow or your hipbone.<\/p>\n
Now that you\u2019re under the covers, expand your repertoire of oral s*x\u2014a nice reward in itself. Try out the Kivin method: Have him lie perpendicular to your body, which allows him to stroke your cli**ris with his tongue in a crosswise motion, rather than up and down.<\/p>\n
If you\u2019re attached, a business trip equals massive s*xual deprivation. So when you reach home, the deprivation turns into s*xual gorging. \u201cYou usually find that this is the most romantic s*x, because it starts out with long, luscious kisses that really get the juices flowing,\u201d\u00a0says Ava Cadell, Ph.D., a California-based sexologist.\u00a0You can simulate this kind of passion\u2014whether you\u2019ve been away for eight days or eight minutes\u2014by having him give you this kind of kiss: First, have kiss him your face all over\u2014lightly, then lick the outside of your lips, and kiss your bottom lip. \u201cThere\u2019s a correlation between a woman\u2019s bottom lip and her v**ina,\u201d\u00a0Cadell says. \u201cSucking gently on her lip will make her v**ina swell.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cWhen you fight, anger drives up testosterone in both men and women,\u201d\u00a0Fisher says. \u201cIf you go to bed with increased testosterone and agitation, the s*x drive is going to be stronger.\u201d<\/p>\n
You can reenact fighting\u2014and the emotions that go along with it\u2014without hurting each other, Cadell says. She suggests trying anything that will create a little physical tension between the two of you. \u201cYou can do anything that\u2019s just a little competitive,\u201d says Gloria Brame, Ph.D., a clinical sexologist based in Atlanta. \u201cOnce you start competing, you can get physical and really work each other up.\u201d Other options include pillow fights or unclad wrestling\u2014whatever floats your boat.<\/p>\n
Sometimes when you\u2019ve decided together that the relationship isn\u2019t working, you end up having s*x to end things on a high note. Occasionally, that last hurrah winds up being better than any you\u2019ve had in the past six months. Fisher says that there\u2019s some speculation among researchers that in so-called last-chance copulation, a man may unknowingly alter the levels of certain hormones in his semen, and that may trigger his partner to ovulate spontaneously. Woah.<\/p>\n
Another theory is that when you know you\u2019re never going to see someone again, you want to leave them wanting you\u2014and you\u2019ll do anything to drive them out of their mind, says Cadell. \u201cSo you both end up concentrating on being uninhibited.\u201d<\/p>\n
To reduce stress and inhibitions, have him give you a massage and focus only on your earlobes, hands, and lower back\u2014the unsung er*tic spots. Have him also hit your lower spine to release tension and reach your pleasure zones in an indirect way. Brame says, \u201cThis area is a nerve center with connections all over, so rubbing her lower spine could make her feel tingly in front.\u201d<\/p>\n
During a birthday bang, it\u2019s clear who\u2019s doing the giving and who\u2019s doing the receiving\u2014which means there\u2019s no pressure for the receiver to reciprocate, says Cadell. Because of that, there\u2019s a huge buildup of anticipation for the birthday gal.<\/p>\n
For the 363 days of non-birthday s*x, you need to build that same anticipation between the two of you. Try this:<\/p>\n
Tell him you want to take him somewhere special tonight. Then tell him you\u2019re leaving your underwear at home. Then take him to a place that plays Latin music. \u201cLatin dancing is very s*xual, especially the movement of the pelvis,\u201d\u00a0Cadell says.<\/p>\n
When you\u2019re back home, he can give you your present: a mind-blowing climax. Get on top of him and tilt your hips forward a little so that your cli**ris hits his pelvis. The tilting also means his man-hood will hit your G-spot. Those two spots will be plenty, but for extra pleasure, caress or lightly stimulate other sensitive areas\u2014your lips, bosoms, b*tt\u2014with your hands or fingers.<\/p>\n
Having s*x with someone for the first time is exciting because of the discovery factor, says Louanne Cole Weston, Ph.D., a licensed marriage and family therapist in California. \u201cYou\u2019re really tuned in to every sense, and you\u2019re feeling things for the first time.\u201d<\/p>\n
The key to having brand-spanking-new s*x is playing with your senses\u2014or at least stimulating them in a new way. \u201cWhen you take away one of the senses, the others work overtime,\u201d says Cadell.<\/p>\n
Here are a few ways to change the sensory experience:<\/p>\n
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Aruba s*x is hotter than suburb s*x due to the change in scenery. \u201cThere\u2019s a marking-the-territory factor for most men and women,\u201d Weston says. \u201cs*x on vacation is a virginal experience in a way.\u201d<\/p>\n
To take a vacation day any day, turn upside down on the bed\u2014feet at the pillow end. \u201cEven doing something simple like hitting the bed at a different angle or sitting or standing up on the bed will add extra stimulation,\u201d Weston says.<\/p>\n
Changing the order of foreplay also helps. Instead of just making out, have him kiss your neck, inner thighs, and wherever else. Have him pick random spots so you don\u2019t know where he\u2019s going next.<\/p>\n
Many couples feel an intense emotional connection the first time they start trying to have a baby. \u201cFor so long you\u2019ve avoided pregnancy, but now you\u2019re ready to be a parent,\u201d\u00a0Weston says, \u201cSaying you want to have a baby with someone is very romantic.\u201d<\/p>\n
To recreate that experience, minus the pregnancy, put flower petals on the top of a ceiling fan and turn it on when you lie down to up the romance factor. Then, have s*x on your sides face to face. It\u2019s the most equal of the s*xual positions. If you\u2019re facing each other, there\u2019s more of an emotional bond than when one is on top of the other, Weston says. And if you\u2019re really feeling fancy, play a song that means something to the both of you. \u201cIf something has special meaning to you both, bring it to the bedroom because it creates a special connection between the two of you,\u201d\u00a0Brame says.<\/p>\n
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Source: Women\u2019s Health<\/p>\n
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